to be unhappy about this..

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My husband works away long periods of time, we both admit to watching porn while we are separated and that’s fine.

A few years ago my husband was paying to watch women online (webcams), I found out and it nearly ended us. I have tried/currently trying to move past it and get over the trust issues.

I’ve just found a PornHub account that he has created and it was created 5 months ago. Like I’ve said I’m OK with him watching porn but why make an account on the website? You don’t have to make an account in order to watch any videos. Theres nothing on his account, any subscriptions etc.

Aibu to feel a certain way about this?

He might be saving videos?

There’s nothing on the account, just that it was made 5 months ago.

You need to talk to him about it. It sounds like you have an honest relationship so tell him how it’s made you feel. What do you want him to do? Set some boundaries together and if he doesn’t stick to them let him know what will happen

He is probably watching live cam again then.

I think watching porn is the issue here, it’s not ‘fine’. A lot of the women in PornHub videos are forced into porn, and there have been cases of actual rape. You should be more concerned about that than your husband opening an account, which as a op said is probably for saving stuff.

If you are happy for him to watch porn, I don’t see why having an account makes it an issue. I would not be happy with any of it.

They made porn hub and other porn sites free during Covid maybe he had to make an account to access the otherwise non free stuff.

You should talk to him. Do you trust him to be honest with you?

I have zero sympathy for a woman who doesn't think porn and Pornhub is a massive problem in society.

Pornhub has been proved to promote and host videos of rape, sexual assault, rape of child kidnapping and trafficking victims, as well as normalising violent, degrading and potential lethal sexual "practices" such as choking.

But none of that matters as long as you get your kicks and your husband isn't lessening the family pot on cam girls, right?

You need an account to save videos to favourites see recently viewed etc