Hi all, I have been married for 3 years and we have one child together born in February. For the last three years we have seen my DH’s family probably less than 10 times, despite the fact that they live 5 mins drive away. My husband has never had a good word to say about them either, saying that he was badly cared for as a child and as he became an adult they only were interested in his money. (Which we don’t have much of I might add). When our baby was born, they started messaging us almost daily asking for money or gifts for their birthdays which were coming up. These gifts ranged from £200-400 each. I should mention here that they know we are struggling financially and that on our occasions we have never received so much as a card, even on our wedding day. They also have given nothing to our baby. They also have made it clear that they don’t approve of our relationship and ignore me every time I see them even if I ask them a direct question, they act as though I’m not even there. This makes me feel very uncomfortable as you can imagine. My husband decided to cut off contact in April after a big argument with them over their behaviour towards me got worse. I would cry every day and felt very low over it. After this i started receiving anonymous messages saying that my baby isn’t really my husbands, calling me lots of nasty things, and to top it off, telling me that my baby is ugly and should “Rot in hell”. I know this is a member of my husbands family as on the message calling my baby ugly, there was a picture attached of him. This picture was only sent to them. It was never posted online or sent to anyone else. My husband knows about this but hasn’t confronted his family even though he knows it is one of them behind it. Recently though he has said out of the blue that he wants to start talking to them again. I am in turmoil over this. I have told him that if that is what he needs to do then that’s fine but that I don’t want a relationship with them and I also don’t want our child to be involved with them after all that has happened. He thinks that they are going to change and that I am being unreasonable by saying that I don’t want them in his life. What do you all think? I am so stressed over this. Need advice.