Been together for 12 years next month. 3 kids 11,3 and 1. I found out yesterday hes been smoking weed almost constantly behind my back. Hes going into work stoned. Being around the kids stoned. I kept smelling it on the sofa and hes calling me crazy or that it must be next door (he does smoke it too). I'm not dead against weed but I don't agree with it when it comes to kids. What if his work finds out and he loses his job? Hes putting everything at risk for no reason. This has been going on since April.
Do I give him a chance to come clean and work from there?
Or AIBU to LTB?
I cant even believe I'm writing this....