My husband has been out tonight drinking with a friend. He got back about 45mins ago. I was asleep in our bed with our toddler. He went into our en suite and was jangling his belt around really loudly and then after he finished in there came into the bedroom. At that point I thought I was going continue getting undressed and make noise so I asked him to put his clothes on the landing for the moment to prevent disturbing us. He went onto the landing and slammed them onto the banister (turns out he was already undressed and thas is what the jangling in the en suite was) and then came back in and has shouted at me since then about how he was trying to be quiet and I'm unreasonable in telling him where to put his clothes. I have tried to apologise that I didnt mean to offend and explain that it was because I didn't want me or toddler to wake up and that know he was trying to he quiet but it was actually quite loud. He has just shouted me down, woken up the toddler and told me I'm manipulative and attacking him when hes vulnerable because he's drunk. Over and over again he shouted that I was manipulative and shouted how he was trying to be quiet. He stood up and said he wasnt sleeping in here and then stood over the wnd of the bed saying how it had all been sorted and his clothes would have been put quietly in the cupboard (which he kept banging really hard as he was saying it) if I hadnt have interfered. And shouting you're a manipulative, manipulative woman over and over again at me while me and toddler lay in the bed. Was I being unreasonable in what I asked him???