Hello,
Had to NC for this.
I currently live at home with my mum and my son (10). I had my first DC very young and was in a domestic violence relationship and didn't plan to move out then because I was scared what my ex would do- considering I still had feelings for him.
I have been on the bidding list for 7 years. We are in London. I have saved around 7-8 grand. I saved more but spent the majority of it on paying for court fees for DS school.
I'm starting to give up on the council. My DS is getting older and I want a home for him and I. I considered private renting but was worried about the security. Now I am considering just saving up as much as I can to buy a flat in London. I would love to buy a house but it's ridiculously expensive. Is this a mad idea?