Relationship breaking point

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Hi to keep long story cut short little back ground married over 15 years with children both myself and Dh felt neglected unloved resulted in DH having an affair. we both agreed to talk things over and see if we can sort issues in marriage and start again. I’m gonna say something along lines of

1. delete n block those cheated and flirted with on social media
2. Change relationship status back to married on Facebook
3. I will change name back to married name
4. Unblock each other and add each other on social media
5. We both allow each other

time to do own stuff away from kids.

1. Holiday is with family as family
2. Communication with each other improves no more bitching remarks bitting each other’s heads off
3. Show each other love and affection
4. Treat each other now n again

10. Have date nights regular basis 11. Less addicted to mobile more quality time together without interference Question is is the above too much or too little to expect from dh obviously dh will want me to change certain things that he feels needed from his point of view also. I’m sure I’ve other things to add to straighten out issues but at min these are all I think of

That sounds like a fair starting point op. They are all reasonable requests many of them are things you both need to do together so it's definitely not unreasonable to approach him with this.