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AIBU - to want him back

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Shockedmama · 18/08/2020 10:16

So looking for some advice.
Was seeing a guy basically he got a bit shitty as he felt I wasn’t keen, and then ignored me and put something about another girl on his fb.
So then I messages him calling him out, and told him not to contact me again then blocked him.
Well now I regret that I actually miss him a lot and think perhaps I was playing games. What would you do. Iv unblocked him but he hasn’t tried to call or anything. Would he call if he liked me to apologise or can I just assume as he has not tried that he never really liked me in the first place?

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FizzyPink · 18/08/2020 10:17

Forget about him. You don’t want someone as childish as this.
If it’s this difficult in the beginning, it won’t get any better

UnfinishedSymphon · 18/08/2020 10:19

Stop playing games, grow up, block, move on.

Ishihtzuknot · 18/08/2020 10:21

Cut your losses and move on, he hasn’t made an effort to get in touch and this childish behaviour doesn’t look great so soon in a relationship, he’s not worth it

Ohtherewearethen · 18/08/2020 12:34

Sounds like you both have a bit of growing up to do.

AryaStarkWolf · 18/08/2020 12:52

Bloody hell, move on

TheGuruishere · 18/08/2020 12:53

@Shockedmama

So looking for some advice. Was seeing a guy basically he got a bit shitty as he felt I wasn’t keen, and then ignored me and put something about another girl on his fb. So then I messages him calling him out, and told him not to contact me again then blocked him. Well now I regret that I actually miss him a lot and think perhaps I was playing games. What would you do. Iv unblocked him but he hasn’t tried to call or anything. Would he call if he liked me to apologise or can I just assume as he has not tried that he never really liked me in the first place?
What exactly did he put on his FB about another women? If it was somthing unforgivable don't even contact.

He obviously felt you wasn't giving him the attention required.

In a rage you blocked him and now regret, your actions. Why would he message you?

The only way your getting back into his life, is by contacting him, start subtle I.e. hows things, bring up a good memory " remember the time we did this..." I really enjoyed that.

Then casually ask a couple of days later fancy a drink or meet up, you know the dynamics of your relationship, so just think and the answer will come.

Then, if you do meet up sometime or get on better speaking terms, just apologise for "the games'.

Becareful though, as if you start doing them again unconsciously, He's likely to cut you out completely.

Good luck.

Yeahnahmum · 18/08/2020 12:55

Such teenage drama op..

KarmaStar · 18/08/2020 13:14

Op,walk away and lose his number,block in sm.then have a think about what went wrong and why and if you were to blame at all,i.e. What can you learn from this? Then move forward.this,whatever it was,was not meant to be.

toomuchpeppapig · 18/08/2020 13:24

If a relationship starts this badly, it's going nowhere, unless you like drama, arguments and general hassle in your life.

WhereYouLeftIt · 18/08/2020 15:26

" he got a bit shitty as he felt I wasn’t keen, and then ignored me and put something about another girl on his fb. So then I messages him calling him out, and told him not to contact me again then blocked him. Well now I regret that I actually miss him a lot and think perhaps I was playing games. "

What age are you?

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