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What are you still salty about?

793 replies

AmberTurnerCo · 18/08/2020 01:23

Years later

I would not getting a wagon wheel in year 5 over 18 years ago.

OP posts:
LadyofTheManners · 22/08/2020 21:00

For goodness sake
Now I have another salty issue
Who the fuck was that much of a Muppet they got my one removed?
Jesus!
Why?
It happened! It wasn't right and I am still miffed about it as it was so unfair.
Honestly why would you? Actually message me if you have an issue?

Fucksake

RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 22/08/2020 21:02

@LadyofTheManners

For goodness sake Now I have another salty issue Who the fuck was that much of a Muppet they got my one removed? Jesus! Why? It happened! It wasn't right and I am still miffed about it as it was so unfair. Honestly why would you? Actually message me if you have an issue?

Fucksake

That’ll teach me not to read the whole thread...its going to frustrate me all night, that i dont know what you said
Starburst8 · 22/08/2020 21:13

Sat here reading all these and thinking I don't have any "saltiness" then I've just read one about giving away Sindy dolls and it's hit me. I do have a "salty" story! Just the thought of it pisses me off still.
When we were younger we had the full set of a toy called Oh Penny. We loved it, even to the point where one of the figures lost a leg so we played her as disabled (we were only about 7 back then). Anyway long story short our dad gave the toy to our cousin just because. It happened to quite a lot of our toys actually... Oh penny just stings the most - that was over 30 years ago now and tbh she's still not a favourite cousin 😂😂😂

cologne4711 · 22/08/2020 21:24

I'm still sulking about 10th Doctor (lovely, lovely David Tennant) turning into Matt Smith. Stopped watching Doctor Who in protest. Ironically, Matt Smith is my son's favourite doctor. He is wrong

Totally agree though I liked Chris Eccleston too. But once DT left, it went downhill. I've never revisited any episodes from Matt Smith onwards though DH is now rewatching them. DS and I are still sulking too!

TheyAreMinerals · 22/08/2020 21:27

When I was about 5 or 6 I got a set of bars of soap in the shape of Aristocrats characters for Christmas. They were much too nice to actually use of course! I wanted to keep them perfect forever! I went into the bathroom one evening to find that my 16-year-old brother had not only unwrapped and wet them, but actually let them float in the bathwater until they were unrecognizable. I was so sad.

Not long after, I came home with my mother after school and work and the house was extremely warm (in winter). someone had turned the thermostat up to the maximum temperature and the furnace had been running all day. My mother accused me because she knew that I knew how to turn the thermostat up just a smidge to make the heat come on before I had a bath. My brother denied touching it. I knew I hadn't done it but they didn't believe me. My brother only admitted he had done it years later, like 40 years later.

a couple years later we travelled across the US to the wedding of my other brother. I had to miss my Brownie troop's Halloween party. I'm still sad.

oomymoomy · 22/08/2020 21:32

*I'm still sulking about 10th Doctor (lovely, lovely David Tennant) turning into Matt Smith. Stopped watching Doctor Who in protest. Ironically, Matt Smith is my son's favourite doctor. He is wrong

Totally agree though I liked Chris Eccleston too. But once DT left, it went downhill. I've never revisited any episodes from Matt Smith onwards though DH is now rewatching them. DS and I are still sulking too!*

I feel the same about Peter Davison taking over from Tom Baker in 1981!

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 22/08/2020 21:47

I’ve remembered another one. My mum had a pack of cards with a lovely ballerina on the back of the. I loved it so much, but was only allowed to play with it as a Special Treat.

One day, at the village jumble sale, I spotted another pack of the very same ballerina playing cards, on one of the stalls - and it was cheap enough that I could afford it - but I decided not to buy it, cause, for some reason, I thought it would make mum cross that I had the same cards as her.

It wasn’t until I went to the drawer, to look at her pack, and found it was gone, that I realised what had happened - mum had had a clear-out and out her ballerina cards in the jumble sale.

I am still bitter that she knew how much I loved them, and didn’t give them to me, if she wanted to get rid of them.

LadyofTheManners · 22/08/2020 21:52

Well would love to tell you but clearly can't
So sick of it
Some of the utter shite I see on here and the nasty responses that go unchecked.

RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 22/08/2020 23:01

lady

💐

SaltyLou · 22/08/2020 23:20

@YogiMatte. too delicate seriously??? Too delicate for a mars bar??? What does that even mean??? Mars bars are for everyone! Or should be though I prefer a snickers personally

MyLifeIsFictional · 22/08/2020 23:34

@LadyofTheManners

For goodness sake Now I have another salty issue Who the fuck was that much of a Muppet they got my one removed? Jesus! Why? It happened! It wasn't right and I am still miffed about it as it was so unfair. Honestly why would you? Actually message me if you have an issue?

Fucksake

Maybe it was your thinly veiled racism?

I didn't report it but I thought it. Wow.

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 22/08/2020 23:57

My friend Teresa got me a leaving present saying ' I wanted to get you a mars bar but my mum said you were too delicate so here's a banjo instead. '

Grrr

Is a Banjo the name of a different kind of chocolate bar? I've never heard of that one. If it was an actual banjo, that would have been so much better than a mere Mars Bar!

I have yet another pub quiz one (well, it was a community one). The question was "To which island group do Eigg, Muck and Rum belong?" We've been lucky enough to visit Eigg and we knew that these three, along with Canna, were classed as 'The Small Isles', so that's what we put. The answer given was 'The Hebrides', which is not incorrect of course, but is much less specific than our answer. Quizmaster marked it incorrect and wouldn't listen when we protested. He had obviously never heard of the term and refused to quickly Google it or look if we did (it wasn't that long ago). I still remember him saying, as if we were really simple, "Well, yes, of course they are all relatively small islands, but we can't just accept that as an answer." Doofus!

Even weirder than that was at another pub quiz, where the landlord had just bought in a ready-made all-in quiz. Music round: name the song. A Smokey Robinson track came on and it was obviously 'Tracks Of My Tears', but the answer on his sheet said 'Tears of A Clown', so that's all he was willing to accept, even though he fully admitted that the quiz setters had messed up. Most of the other teams recognised SR and just guessed at his much better-known song and got the point that we didn't!

Much further back, I remember at primary school, when we had weekly spelling tests. As it happened, I was an avid reader and spelling was my absolute forte so I very rarely had to actually learn the words that we were given, as I already knew them. One week, I'd been on holiday when the list of words had been given out (that was still allowed back then, it was an annual conference related to my parents' profession - HT had signed my holiday form and everything!), so I just turned up for the test without any foreknowledge. The teacher read out the word 'model' which, in her northern accent (school was in the Midlands), sounded exactly like 'muddle' and not at all like a local would have said 'model', so MUDDLE is what I answered. She refused to let me have the mark, even though I knew full well how to spell both words - told me that it had been given out in the list, which I'd never had a chance to see - and thus blotted out the whole year's clean sheet.

LadyofTheManners · 23/08/2020 00:04

Are you kidding me?
I reported it how it happened.
I was the one who was sidelined!
It doesn't matter who they were, a father writing a letter blackmailing a head to get his daughter a role "or else" is disgraceful and yep I'm still pissed off years later.

Tell me, as a parent, would you stand for that? Or would you, on hearing the details, ignore it just in case some snowflake decided you were the one at fault for pointing out how wrong it was?
Or does racism only work one way?

And like you didn't report? Couldn't wait to castigate me here now could you when I point out how rude it is!
I hope MN ban you for troll hunting.

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 23/08/2020 00:21

Some of these are truly evil - the nasty way that parents and teachers can treat small children. Not even just unthinking or even neglectful, but actually actively deciding to do something that anybody knows will cause a child a lot of trauma. I hope the recounting here is largely bringing catharsis rather than just triggering painful memories. Mind you, I'm not convinced even that knowing that the wicked then-elderly teacher from 50 years ago will obviously now be dead goes all that far in healing the wounds.

The awful one about the wicked MIL binning all of the precious childhood horse rosettes reminded me of another horrific thread from a while ago, where OP and her DH were on holiday and MIL had keys for checking up on the house/feeding the cat or whatever. She had taken it on herself to go into OP's wardrobe, root through all of the clothes to find and bin a whole shoe-boxful of precious and irreplaceable old photos and similar treasures belonging to her. She claimed that she'd 'had to do something about the dreadful [non-existent] mess' in the actually tidy house, but had thrown nothing else away whatsoever. She'd obviously been calculating enough to get in there quickly before the bin men came, so that they would all have been taken before OP returned and she couldn't have fished them back out of the bin. It obviously brought her satisfaction to see distraught OP's reaction and, as is always the way, she made it imaginarily OP's 'fault' rather than accept any blame or even bring herself to cursorily apologise 'for any misunderstanding'.

What drives people to do such spiteful things like this? How can somebody carry such irrational hatred within them? I understand (obviously don't condone) people's reasons for stealing from others in order to acquire something for themselves, but the whole concept of vandalism/destroying/binning other people's property makes absolutely no sense to me. Even if you detest somebody, why wouldn't you engineer some way of costing them a lot of time or money to put something right or have to replace it - expensive furniture or house repairs - rather than actually stealing and destroying something of immense sentimental value and totally irreplaceable?

SaltyLou · 23/08/2020 00:25

@WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll I agree. also the way that so many adults seem not to give the child the benefit of the doubt and assume that child must be lying or doing the thing they been accused of. Depressing.

TenDays · 23/08/2020 00:28

A few years ago half a dozen of my female relations went on holiday abroad without me.

I knew nothing about it, even though I saw one of them on way to the airport and she told me where she was going - but not who with.

Found out on Facebook after it was over. Felt like a prize turnip.

SaltyLou · 23/08/2020 00:28

@LadyofTheManners that is a shame. Is it possible someone reported by mistake? Haven't reported before so not sure how it works on here. Is it something that could have been done by pressing the wrong button or something?

SaltyLou · 23/08/2020 00:31

@ilovepixie horrible racist teacher. am sorry you.went through that Flowers

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 23/08/2020 00:36

LadyofTheManners - please don't let the frustration of the deletion add to the already raw feelings that led you to recount your experience in this thread. I didn't see it before it was deleted, but would you be able to repost it with blanks/asterisks or by bowdlerising whatever term(s) somebody clearly found offensive in the retelling?

It would be horrible to think that you end up more upset by the deletion silencing you than you already were by whatever injustice it was that actually originally happened and caused you to post on here about it. Flowers

SaltyLou · 23/08/2020 00:40

@LadyofTheManners I think what @WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll suggests is good idea

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 23/08/2020 01:32

Is it possible someone reported by mistake? Haven't reported before so not sure how it works on here. Is it something that could have been done by pressing the wrong button or something?

I don't think it's that straightforward, as you can also use the Report button for neutral or even positive purposes - such as asking MNHQ to move your thread to a more appropriate topic, delete identifying details or begging for the thread to be inducted into Classics! Maybe it wouldn't be necessary if it's in-your-face clearly offensive or spammy, but you wouldn't normally just 'report' without also giving some brief reasons for your doing so.

LadyofTheManners · 23/08/2020 01:55

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SaltyLou · 23/08/2020 02:00

@LadyofTheManners. Yes it seems you have been the victim of racism rather than the perpetrator. That sucks. I agree regarding racism going both ways. That parent was very unreasonable.

LadyofTheManners · 23/08/2020 07:46

@saltylou thank you

ILoveIkea · 23/08/2020 08:00

@LadyofTheManners
Out of curiosity, did this incident affect your view of a Whole Community?

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