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AmberTurnerCo · 18/08/2020 01:23

Years later

I would not getting a wagon wheel in year 5 over 18 years ago.

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Divoc2020 · 18/08/2020 12:26

Ooh - I've remembered another one!

DH's family are quite spread out across the country so don't often all meet together, so at our wedding MIL kept getting the photographer to take combinations of their family - DH's parents/ the siblings/ all of them together etc.
When we saw them later with the 'proofs' (pre online ordering days) and asked them to tick which ones they wanted copies of, MIL returned the form and they hadn't chosen a single photo with me in!

canyoucallbacklater · 18/08/2020 12:27

Halloween - 1998. I was promised a pumpkin. For weeks, every time we went to a shop I begged my Mum for a pumpkin. She always said we'd get one nearer to Halloween or it would go off - come Halloween.

Not a pumpkin could be found anywhere - there must have been a shortage. Oh, how I cried. Haven't let her forget it for twenty years.

Tittie · 18/08/2020 12:33

One of my friends, Sarah, nicked my favourite doll from my coat pocket at school in year 3. She was gorgeous (the doll not the friend) and I was heartbroken. I knew I shouldn't have taken the doll to school, so I either didn't tell my mum because I thought I'd get told off, or my mum didn't pursue it because it was my fault, I can't really remember. I don't know why I didn't confront the friend either! (I later saw the doll at the friend's house in the clothes my grandma made, so she definitely nicked it. I just looked at the doll sadly and still kept quiet. Should've taken her back)

HearingMyOwnVoice · 18/08/2020 12:35

When I got in trouble at school for kicking one of the lads in the balls.
Despite the fact I was a good girl and no bother no one thought to ask why I had behaved so out of character.
Not sure I could have answered anyway as it was because said boy was bullying my brother, calling my mum a tart and saying she was sleeping with our teacher. Kind of agreed with him too. I was 7.

Zaphodsotherhead · 18/08/2020 12:35

I was another one from a less-well-off family.

School non-uniform days were hell. I used to wear my favourite trousers and a hoop-link belt thing. Not especially trendy, but comfortable and I felt nice in it.

A few girls from my year called me aside and then taunted me, asking if I thought I was 'trendy and fashionable'. Luckily I was fairly cool and just said that I didn't really care, I was happy with what I was wearing, so their attempted bullying went a bit astray. But I wonder, nowadays, if they ever think back to that time, if they remember and go a bit cringe, thinking that they tried to bully someone for being poor.

I do hope so.

malificent7 · 18/08/2020 12:37

At school we visited Slimbridge wildfowl trust and afterwards qe had to do a booklet about it. I put so much work into it and on the front I drew a beautiful goose.
My friend at the time was jealous so did a massive scribble on the front!! Why are kids so horrid?!

madnessitellyou · 18/08/2020 12:39

So many more are flooding back now.

I was utterly, utterly hopeless at PE. I tried hard, but I was just useless. I had, however, a very theoretical mind and was able to understand rules of hockey etc and recall them. I got a really good mark in the Y7 end of year PE written exam. Near to the top of the class. Given my execution of said sports was nowhere near any sort of standard, the teacher accused me of cheating. Thanks, Mrs D. That really helped.

Me and a couple of friends got 8/10 in a French vocab test. We got different ones wrong. All accused of cheating but especially me as I wasn't that good, apparently.

The most bizarre one was when I had to send my apologies for a rehearsal for something. I had to do my HE practical exam that day (hmm, might have been Y11). The music teacher went ballistic: how dare I miss a rehearsal etc etc. I was a really good student and being shouted at just wasn't something that ever really happened so I cried Sad. The root of her displeasure was that apparently I was going on a trip to Alton Towers and again, how dare I go on the school arranged trip in school time when I meant I was missing a rehearsal. I loathe theme parks so asked the HE teacher if I could instead do my HE practical that day as otherwise I'd have to miss the technical rehearsal which I thought was important. The music teacher said I was lying and if she found out I'd been to Alton Towers instead of the rehearsal there would be trouble. She informed me that she'd be checking in the room and "had better see me there doing my HE practical".

Same teacher refused to ever let me do solos in choir (I can sing very well and indeed did several performances on voice while doing my undergraduate music degree).

Miss R: why did you treat me like that?

SummerPoppies · 18/08/2020 12:44

My best friend ran off with my boyfriend and he had the best lego.
Ok, we were only 6 at the time, but still.......

SchadenfreudePersonified · 18/08/2020 12:45

She went on to be a lecturer at oxford and I hope had better morals and copied less then!

I bet she's built a career on shameless plagiarism, Shirley

Iwanttobeanonymous · 18/08/2020 12:47

Sunday school. I guess I was maybe 5 or 6. We all had a booklet and every week we attended we got a sticker of a religious image. A page held 4 stickers and when we had those we got a gold star to go in the middle of the page.

The week in question I filled a page, we were asked to put hands up if we were due a star so I did but the teacher missed me!! I tried to attract her attention but she didnt see me (or ignored me!!) so when we were going home I asked her politely but was told it was too late. I cried all the way home!! We were moving house to another area completely, so when I said I didnt want to go back, Mum said I didn't have to. But the new sunday school where we moved to didn't do stickers!!

Theladyofshalot · 18/08/2020 12:48

I was a solitary child, quiet, shy and bookish. I loved reading but was very badly dyslexic (We didn't know that then, I was just considered lazy). I didn't socialise much, and was new to the school so most people including the teachers wouldn't have been aware of my passion for reading.

One day we were asked to write up a book review and I chose my favourite which at the time which was above a gold level book - which, as I was in primary in a remedial class, would have been unusual.

The teacher accused me of lying about reading the book as there was no way that someone that writes/spells like i did could have. I was stood up in front of the class and instructed to tell everyone I was a liar. I refused. The teacher tried to catch me out by asking what happened but I answered correctly. This seem just to make her madder and decided the fact that I was flustered and red in the face was 'proof' of my lies.

I got so angry that I talked back and ended up being sent to the headmasters office (physically dragged). I was made to stand in the corner while the head told me that my parents were being called in and I was in so much trouble.

My Dad turned up and told them that he bought the books for me and I was reading at the level and had been constantly for some time. He then proved it by asking about the sequels and I clearly told him what happened and he pulled out the books and confirmed with the Head.

Just when i thought it was all going to be all alright the head said it was no excuse for talking back to the teacher. I was put in detention for two weeks and would miss out on a picnic. My dad didn't argue it.

The injustice of it still makes my eyes well up today.

AgnesNaismith · 18/08/2020 12:51

A family member sold my megadrive on eBay (that I hadn’t used for 15+ years) but still!?!?

Tittie · 18/08/2020 12:54

I was also prevented from winning a music competition at school because "you win every year and it's not fair on the others". Maybe the others should practise a bit more?!

Titsywoo · 18/08/2020 12:55

That because I couldn't get to the top of the climbing frame in primary school the other kids wouldn't let me join the climbing frame club

That I was accused of stealing £50 from my parents room when we were teenagers but it was my brother and nobody believed me (nor did they say sorry when he revealed the truth 15 years later!)

That my mum told me she was taking our dog to the vet then when she came home told me she had given him away

iklboo · 18/08/2020 12:58

About 13 I bought myself some (what I thought) fancy ingredients for a sandwich as a treat. Brown bread, nice ham, proper butter etc - stuff that's 'normal' now but we didn't buy when I was younger. I made it all nice, cut diagonally, crisps on the side like a cafe.

Mum said it looked nice and could she have a bite. Of course I said yes. She took a massive drag of her cigarette and, mouth full of smoke, took a big bite out of the very middle of the sandwich, then breathed the rest of the smoke over it. I couldn't eat it after that and said she could have it but she said she didn't like it after all. Took the plate off me and binned the rest. I'd only had enough money to buy ingredients for one sandwich.

At work aged about 18 big boss called me into her office and accused me of phoning the IT place (off site those days) and telling them to wipe the month end accounts because they were wrong and needed redoing. I had no idea what she was talking about, told her that and I didn't even know it could be done. She kept saying over and over I was a liar, Alison had phoned them and they'd told her it was me who had done it and ruined the tax returns. I was baffled, kept saying I had no clue. She was calling me a stupid little bitch etc. Told me to go away and think about it and if I hadn't admitted it in half an hour I would be sacked with no wages. I was crying my eyes out.

As I left her office it dawned on me to check the office register - I wasn't even in the week I was supposed to have done it. I was heading back to tell her when Alison rushed past me, into the office and shut the door. Ten minutes later boss calls me back in and said 'it looks like IT made a mistake. It wasn't you, it was Alison. Go back to work and we'll forget all about it'. No apology and nothing even happened to bloody Alison.

Derekhello · 18/08/2020 12:58

I’ve got two...it was the silver jubilee year and we had to colour in a picture of the Queen for a competition in all her regalia. I remember doing it so carefully and loved doing it. The head of the parish councils daughter won and hers was so bad, over the lines and everything! 😂 the rest of us didn’t get a look in. I should maybe let that go it was over 40 years ago...
Another Christmas one, my daughters class had to make a Christmas decoration they put so much effort in only for the “favourite” to win, sorry she was the favourite there’s no getting away from it 😆 She entered a lavish creation of an electric candle bridge in a box complete with manger etc, clearly hadn’t done it herself they were only about 6, afterwards the mum said yeah she didnt make it my dad did it for her 🙄 That child was teachers pet 😤 I can’t let it go ten odd years later 😂

hiredandsqueak · 18/08/2020 12:59

That when my youngest sister was born dm decided that I had to have school dinners instead of going home for lunch as I had previously. It still stings some 46 years later.

wigglerose · 18/08/2020 13:00

Why my form tutor took exception to me plaiting the two bits of hair on either side of my centre parting in year 9 form. She said it was because it looked "stupid". Probably did, but come on this is the battle you're going to pick and the hill you're going to die on with a class full of 27 teenagers?

I can't even remember her name.

AriesTheRam · 18/08/2020 13:00

We went to York for a day trip early 90s I was around 11 db was 9.I found a £5 note outside York minster which mum and dad said we could get some sweets with.There was no way sweets cost a fiver so obviously they pocketed the rest.I still bring it up now Grin And yes I do realise that I shouldn't have took the money in the first place.

PopsicleHustler · 18/08/2020 13:02

2 years ago, I wanted to have a water birth wit my 4th child as it was absolutely amazing experience with my 3rd child. After a while of being in birth pool, midwife 1 brought me out to break my waters to speed things along. I have ridiculously long labours. I asked if i could get back in to the birthing pool afterwards, she said no problem. Literally after she broke my waters, her shift ended and midwife 2 wobbled along to take over the reins. I asked to get back into the birthing pool, she said no she has a bad back and camt bend down. She was also quite snappy at both me and my hubby. I accepted that but at the same time I felt like , shouldn't I be able to do as I ppease during my labour. I had to accept I wasnt allowed a water birth. Part of me felt like asking for another midwife but I wasnt sure if that was rude. In the end, I had to give birth on the bed and was just a long horrible 32 hour labour

I still feel annoyed that I never got to have my water birth. Currently pregnant with baby number 5 and really wanting to have a water birth again.

PopsicleHustler · 18/08/2020 13:03

I put a tenner in one of my kitchen drawers 3 or 4 years ago. The pig still hasn't shown his face.

peanacat · 18/08/2020 13:04

That my friend used a joke that I had told her to enter a joke competition in primary school and it won. Gutted. She gave me no credit either Hmm

ZappBrannigan · 18/08/2020 13:06

I feel for you @zukiecat
For me it's Mum giving away my Big Yellow Teapot. 35 years later and still livid

Derekhello · 18/08/2020 13:10

@User563420011

In year 5, we went on a school trip and we were allowed to buy a souvenir. I brought a really nice pencil. Two days later, I left it in the classroom at break and another girl took it and claimed it was hers. Teacher took her side- she hadn't even gone on the school trip- and told me not to tell lies. I still feel furious at the injustice. Fuck you, Sarah* (not her real name)
I have a pencil one too! In my primary school days the desks lifted up and you kept your books etc in there, I had a beautiful new metallic green pencil my mum had bought me and I accidentally shut it in the lid causing a dent. A girl stole it from me, I knew it was mine because of the dent, teacher took her side and told me off, I can’t remember if I got it back I’ve got a feeling I may have reclaimed it off her later on, but as you said, Fuck you Sarah. (Also not her real name).
SeasonallySnowyPeasant · 18/08/2020 13:10

Year 3, circa 25 years ago. My class was doing an assembly to the whole school on healthy eating. I'd carefully mixed paints for the perfect colour for a glass of apple juice. My Australian teacher made me paint over it in a sludge colour because she didn't believe that apple juice came in my colour and said it looked like wee. And my parents agreed with her! I still think of it every time I have apple juice.

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