Exh is a narc lovely to coparent with (not). There is a cao in place. I’m in clinically vulnerable group, and have been told because of drug I take still keep as much as possible to shielding. Ex took our children to another house for lunch with 3 separate households in a small flat! Not outside No garden. People around children in direct violation to court order and area they should not be in also on court order.
He did not ask or tell me after he had dropped them back. I have taken the lockdown hard I’m mentally exhausted. Haven’t seen friends etc missed my grandmother 90th. This final thing after many weeks of him pushing his luck I snapped (after sinking a third of a bottle of red wine) sent totally ranting texts. I broke down in tears of frustration and anger at his total disregard for the children and myself. I’m really FKED off with his superiority complex. He is a W*Ker. Of course he will twist anything now into ‘using them as weapons’. I don’t know what to do he is awful to deal with. FWIW he had not seen them for almost 6 months due to his behaviour prior to April and I had his assurance that it would be just him and he would stick to guidance.