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To be annoyed at my friend cancelling last minute?

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poppyhoppydoda · 17/08/2020 11:08

My friend is flaky,she's lazy and her ideal day is just lying in bed.
Anyway time after time she cancels plans because she can't be bothered.
I know I'm a fool for continuing the friendship.
Today we booked for 12pm to go for lunch.
With it being half price we had to book table and they needed food orders 24 hours in advance.
It's a small family restaurant.
I booked a week ago.
She text at 11 am saying she couldn't make it.
She had slept in ,it was raining and could we do it another time.
Aibu to be pissed off?
I'm not a bitch calling her lazy but she is lazy.

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1FootInTheRave · 17/08/2020 12:52

I had a mate that kept doing this.

I don't bother withher anymore.

It's so bloody rude.

Brefugee · 17/08/2020 12:54

I'd ask her if she's ok, tell her she owes you for the meal she booked and depending on her reaction either
a) tell her that she's too flaky to make plans with alone but you're happy to meet up in a group
b) if she's got depression or you want to be more tactful, just don't make plans with her unless you're in a group…

Either way, don't make plans with her, but be tactful about telling her if you want.

Luckingfovely · 17/08/2020 19:30

Just don't make any more arrangements with her. Full stop.

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