Name change.
I don’t know whether this is an age thing but in the last year and a half I’ve been kissing my DH less and less. Mostly during intercourse. In truth I’m aiming to stop kissing at all when we are being intimate.
The reason for this is because somewhere in the last 2 years he’s began washing machine kissing me.
I wonder if this is normal? Is anyone else dealing with this? How do I tell him without making him feel insecure about it?
Recently, when we kiss, I find that he empties his saliva into my mouth. There was one night I was so annoyed and disgusted I pushed it all back into his mouth.
Often when we kiss when being intimate I find myself wiping my lips and face every three or four kisses. It interrupts the swing of things.
When I shower after we are done, my face is often very dry. From where he has slobbered all over me.
It’s driving me nuts and it’s the reason why I’m avoiding being intimate with him. I’ll make up as many excuses as I can to avoid being intimate because of this issue.
As I wrote this, I realise, when I met him he never used to kiss using tongues and I did. Actually in the last two years he’s begun using tongues and I’ve switched to not using tongues. Wow this is tmi . I apologise if you’re trying to eat lunch !
I don’t know what defines a good kisser but in my previous relationships I’ve always enjoyed kissing and never have had this issue. I have good saliva control. I’m thinking maybe he was never good with tongues and he’s now decided he likes it but has very little saliva control.
Sometimes after we are done, I excessively scrub my face in the shower to get rid of the feeling of the saliva being slobbered across my face.
It’s a huge turn off. It’s not sexy anymore. It just makes me shudder.
I apologise to anyone who has read this and now feels a bit ill.