*I had a single women turn down our four-bed house as the staircase wasn't wide enough confused It was a regular staircase.
People are fucking mad.*
Easily could have been me. I look the picture of health and have a “high flying career” but I’ve got some quite significant health problems. I need a staircase that’s safe, especially living alone, as I have a tendency to black out and very rarely, may have a fit if I’m very poorly. For some reason, the narrow staircase in my parents first home when I was little was a trigger in my fainting episodes and I fell the whole way down and cracked my head open more than once. They moved houses coincidentally to one with a better lit, wider staircase and touch wood, I’ve not blacked out on it since.
I did find myself “going” when viewing certain homes, especially new builds where the staircases are “normal” but narrower than what I’m comfortable with. It’s unusual but I’m not the only one. For some of us it’s stairs (and a billion other things), for others it’s swallowing, singing, heat, flying on airplanes etc etc. Not a psychological problem btw, a cardiac one. So not “fucking mad”.
And being a “single woman” looking at a four bed home? I’m currently single and was when I bought my home but I have plans to have children and perhaps even foster so need spare rooms. I admit looking at the stairs and thinking, “would I be safe carrying a baby down these stairs?” “Can I safely carry a hoover up and down the stairs?” “Will my elderly relatives feel safe on them when they come to stay?” “If Mum has to come and live with me at some point or if my health were to deteriorate further, could I fit a stairlift in here or would I have to sell up?”.
So you may think she’s mad (and it genuinely might have been me that you are talking about!) but she could have very legitimate reasons.