So I’m asking on here for another women’s opinion as I’m loosing my head. My wife had affair well series of one night stands several months back recently about 8weeks back we both agreed to try and save marriage but needed to talk things over first not about the affairs done with talking dragging up that but more along lines of how we are going to change and treat each other better moving forward put right what was wrong however she always makes excuses for not going ahead with talking either not well or busy ect ect. I pay majority of the bills and we have both said if we don’t agree on certain things then we would separate and she would need to sort her money out so we can both live separate lives and I’d have to find my own place to rent. I’m wondering if she is just playing games with me no intention of actually talking things over as she wants to continue having the security of me paying bills and convenience of me being at home to look after kids so she can continue going out as and when she likes