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margarita7 · 13/08/2020 12:46

DH and I were watching a program which brought up reverse image searching.
DH said to me that someone had done it on his picture and it brought up a plenty of fish link (the reason someone searched is not suspicious).

He said this casually and I was like ??? So I did the search and sure enough it linked to POF, but I can't see anything and it says the image was first saved in 2014, I didn't meet DH until 2015 and I know he had this website.

However, as we met on a dating app, I made sure to reiterate to delete everything and he said he had. My gut has an uneasy feeling as to why this would show up - he says it must be that his picture has been cached. I've never used POF but I've learned you can hide your profile which makes me think that's what he did and not delete it? But if it's been 5 years would the profile still exist with inactivity?

Also should mention I've tried to log in to what would have been the email he used then and it doesn't work, if you try forgotten password it also doesn't work. This could be indicative that he no longer has an account but I still feel a bit naive?

The picture is probably the best picture of him that he has despite being 6 years old so I am sure if he were to ever do something dodgy then he'd use it.

Any help?

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margarita7 · 13/08/2020 16:45

Yes I have reason to be suspicious, otherwise I'd be a bit more understanding.

It's more if other people have had this happen. Those who have said their POF still comes up despite being deleted have made me feel better!

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