Hi. Abit of an odd one. Twice in the last six weeks I've arranged to meet my friend and on the day she tells me a member of her family is coming or she has forgot she's meeting this family member. Much older than us and male. I'm always welcome to go along aswel but I decline because it feels a strange thing to tag along too. Especially because my children are young and my 2 year old daughter especially gets bored of sitting after 5 minutes. We arranged for Monday but I was unwell with the heat and my head was pounding. Tuesday was baking hot again and it would have been too much for the kids and the dogs. So we are supposed to be meeting today.
Because a couple of times lately it seems she's double booked and it's never an option to reschedule the other person, I'm half wanting her to contact me first today and arrange it. But usually I would text and confirm things. So my question is
If you were me would you let her text you first and then you know she definitely is free and wants to meet.
Or would you text her because you was unwell Monday and we said today instead.
I know she isn't making excuses as I'm always invited too. But I think she invites me too so she doesn't feel bad for the double booking. I don't want to end up being offered a third time and having to say no.
What would you do?