Not sure if I'm being unreasonable, but here goes.
About 2 years ago a felt I had perimenopausal symptoms. Described about half a dozen or more symptoms over the phone to GP. I was almost 48 at the time. Her first answer was would I like to take an SSRI? No. I wasnt depressed. Joint pain was one of my symptoms, and apparently SSRI's can help with that. I countered that I was a sports Therapist and that many of my clients were on SSRI's for depression and anxiety, yet still they came to me with joint pain for muscle and joint pain. I also voiced my concerns about side effects and how difficult it can be to come off antidepressants. She said they were way better and safer than opiates and anti inflammatories. Still wasn't buying it.
A year later and I'm diagnosed with osteoarthritis. Was given codeine, but made to feel like shit for taking it. Like I'm some sort of drug addict. I totally get that some people get addicted to opiates, but that wasn't me.
At the same time, my Mum was absolutely shattered. Short of breath and it was getting her down. Lots of other symptoms and underlying problems. GP asks if she would like antidepressants? We visited the GP not long after this and long story short, my Mum was severely anaemic due to microscopic bleeding. Turned out to be bowel cancer. Mum had a big op just after lockdown and is recovering nicely.
I had another appointment today with GP regards to ongoing osteoarthritis pain and also further perimenipause issues (hot flushes- I'm now nearly 50) Again, she wants me to take SSRI's. I did a lot of research beforehand and read a lot of threads of MN in the menopause section. So many people say they had immediate joint pain relief from HRT. GP has said all along she is sceptical about this, but I'm edging closer to going on HRT.
But why the love of SSRI's? Sorry, this was longer than I intended. I've done family research too with regards to risks and benefits. Would be grateful for anyones personal experience.