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JadesRollerDisco · 09/08/2020 12:03

I am trying to eat intuitively, not sure I'm doing it right or not? Are there any books or online support groups for this or anything? Feel like I'm alone right now.

I really want to end dieting forever. I'm over weight but dieting was begging to send me into ED territory. I'm not going there. I want to stop thinking, eating, sleeping, breathing, dreaming weight loss and get my life back. I've started. It's going well so far.

What are your experiences? Any advice for a newbie? Thanks

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Generalblah · 09/08/2020 13:13

‘How to Have Your Cake and Your Skinny Jeans Too’ by a lady Josie (something - can’t remember).

Good luck :)

NotJustACigar · 09/08/2020 13:39

My experience was I gained a lot of weight, sadly. Now I log everything I eat and balance it out with exercise using a Fitbit and that works much better for me.

Grumpbum123 · 09/08/2020 13:42

Take a look at Susie Orbach and beyond chocolate

JadesRollerDisco · 09/08/2020 14:47

I really don't care about being fat anymore so long as I'm happy!

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Confrontayshunme · 09/08/2020 15:10

I think it works really well for people who have truly disordered eating. I have a friend who essentially cures her binge eating disorder and lost weight for good. I have been doing all sorts of dieting and finally just tried to listen to myself. I am bang in the middle of normal BMI for my height, my iron levels have improved and best of all, if I feel hungry, I eat. It's wonderful, but I do still eat whole foods and cooked meals. If I just had chocolate and cookies whenever I was hungry, it would be just as bad.

DorisDances · 09/08/2020 15:31

I have been doing Noom for a few weeks and found it really helpful. Very much focuses on the psychological aspects that Beyond Chocolate does but is more upfront about still needing to tackle a current weight issue etc. I find this an effective approach.

Backarackhams · 09/08/2020 16:01

Never got out of the "doritos and doughnuts" phase or whatever Josie called it & piled weight on. Now back to MFP!!

Curlyhairedbrummie · 09/08/2020 16:53

Hello,
There is a book called 'intuitive eating' by Evelyn Tribole and it's sets out all of the evidence supporting this concept. I would love to be able to eat intuitively as I think this is the 'normal' way to eat.....but I do need some rules around food which isn't part of IE! There are a lot of principles which I'm fully on-board with for example, rejecting diet culture and it's very freeing!
Also Beyond Chocolate I really enjoyed reading. It's less scientific than the other book and a really easy read. Good luck!

JadesRollerDisco · 10/08/2020 09:22

Doritos and doughnuts! Yeah, that's what's worrying me really. I have been really slim but really unhealthy (vitamin deficient) and overweight but feeling in good health (and eating a varied diet). I basically always eat the same amount of junk, but when I lose weight I just don't eat the healthy stuff as well.

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Sexnotgender · 10/08/2020 09:28

Love it! I found Paul McKenna’s books really helpful.

Cannabeaye · 10/08/2020 09:41

Love it. So much happier and wish I'd known about it years ago! Determined kids will be brought up like this. Recommend Christy Harrison's free Food Psych podcasts.

JadesRollerDisco · 11/08/2020 10:09

I was already raising kids according to most of the principles, I just wasn't using the same stuff for myself. So telling them that full fat yoghurt is better, then eating a Muller light because it went with my diet. Because they could eat intuitively because they weren't tainted by years of bad habits and overweight, whereas I needed to get to my perfect weight first.

I had a lightening bulb moment I guess and just thought what the hell am I doing? I'm trying to treat myself with kindness generally. It's a process though. It's harder than I thought it would be to challenge my thinking

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