Curiosity of that you think? next door neighbor's argument

[Mummytoonlychild]

My nightmare neighbors are arguing again. I'm in the front bedroom and can hear it from the garden.
Im sick of it tbo but she's currently going off on one again because he's been watching porn.
It's been going on for 40 mins about this and that some of the stuff is really funny she's screaming at the top of her lungs absolute silly things sorry off at a tangent slightly. But she's screaming mostly about him watching porn. And I'm wondering how many people find porn as cheating. I truly don't. I watch it and enjoy it lol and I've had partners that have alone and we have seen it together. For me it's no different that a dirty magazine you see in movies. So what I'm asking is it it that bad for others or am I just odd.
Yabu for cheating
Yanbu for not cheating

Firstly if you think that there is domestic violence then phone the police.

Secondly porn contributes to the rape and trafficking of women and girls. It desensitisis boys and men into viewing women as commodities who should be sexually available at all times and willing to have anything and everything done to them.

Pornhub platforms videos of actual rape of women and of underage girls and generally only remove something if lawyers are involved.

And I'm wondering how many people find porn as cheating. I truly don't. I watch it and enjoy it lol and I've had partners that have alone and we have seen it together.

No sure why you're 'lolling', OP. As WarmthandDepth says:

Porn is grim. It is an industry that normalises non-consensual sex (rape), trafficking, coercion and exploitation. Porn creates and contributes to skewed sexual expectations and conditioning in the men and boys who watch it, leaving women and girls vulnerable to expectation of emulation, both of physical 'ideals' and 'services rendered'.

Porn isn't cheating, but having worked in a professional capacity with a number of women who have worked in the sex industry , I wouldn't 'enjoy it' or Dr it as harmless. DH worked in a similar field with exploited and vulnerable people, he's quite open that he watched porn when younger thinking nothing of it, but now the thought that a lot of those people have been exploited, feel they have no other option, have experienced trauma and abuse etc means it has no appeal.

Yes some people enter the sex work industry through absolute free choice and suffer no ill effects, in my professional experience that isn't the majority