AIBU by going back to the pub.

[CrabtreeEstate]

Just to say, this was pre-Covid.

I booked a self catering accom, in a medium size city. The apartment was on the 2nd floor of the building with a pub on the ground floor.

DP and I went out for a couple of drinks to this pub, it was more than a couple for him, he got a extremely drunk. He told me he was struggling so I helped him back upstairs to our room, made sure he was ok in bed and said I was going back down to the pub. (It was around 9pm by this time but I wasn't tired), he started mumping and moaning, saying he didn't want me to go- tried to convince me he had been spiked, and he felt it was safer if I stayed with him.

I reassured him he was fine, waited until he had fallen asleep, then went back downstairs to the pub. He says he woke up some 30mins later and thinks its unforgivable that I left him "in his hour of need".

Was this unreasonable?

I would have stayed with him for a while to make sure he was ok, give him a bowl to be sick in, put him in recovery position, wait for him to settle then go back to pub.

Sounds like looking after a toddler

He's an adult, why on earth should you sit there watching him snore all night, bored?? YANBU

You are not his mum. He can look after his own drunk self.