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To end this right now

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chillimartini · 03/08/2020 22:58

I will keep it short!
Met a man online 2 weeks ago. Have met him twice now...I really like him. He texts every day (not in a annoying way). Now on two occasions he has asked me if he can call later during the evening and he hasn't called. Today he asked if we can talk later around 7pm as we are meant to be seeing each other tomorrow evening. I agreed and said I would Let him know when I get home. I text him at 7.15 and told him I was home and that we could speak in about 15 mins. He has been online (whats app) but not replied to my message.
I have just been through so much heartache with men that I just want to end this now. I know it may appear that I am being dramatic but I am mid 40's and he is early 50's. I just can't deal with emotional disasters anymore.
I know he will text tomorrow and say he was busy or whatever. I can't understand why he can't just text and say I'm sorry im a bit busy can we speak another time??!
Am I being unreasonable to just ignore his messages or block him? Just can't go through another fuck up.

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CochonDinde · 03/08/2020 22:59

Sounds like he's married I'm afraid

chillimartini · 03/08/2020 23:01

I don't think he's married as he has given me a lot of details about himself...but yes you are right that is a possibility

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firecracker69 · 03/08/2020 23:03

He's unreliable. Get rid. He can't even call you when he says he will, so early on too.

IsThisTheKrustyKrab · 03/08/2020 23:05

I would definitely get rid. To be honest it sounds like he's not that into you, I'm afraid.

BuffaloMozzerella · 03/08/2020 23:39

So rude, I hate that shit. Get rid. Life's too short to be second guessing him

Yeahnahmum · 03/08/2020 23:40

DELETE THIS MAN. Get rid asap.

BlessYourCottonSocks · 03/08/2020 23:43

I'd block and move on.

Anyone who is this rude after only two dates isn't a keeper. It's bad manners to ask you to make yourself available to him and then find more interesting things to do whilst leaving you hanging.

AnnaSW1 · 03/08/2020 23:45

Flaky and rude. I'm sure you deserve better

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