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To have taken these painkillers?

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anonymous256969 · 03/08/2020 21:15

Having my third period in 5 weeks, GP surgery said quite normal and everyone has struggles with their periods . Did ask for the pill but nurse said to learn to get on with it as ‘all women have to’ . Have a diagnosis of PCOS, adhesions, chronic pelvic pain, and waiting on further tests . They think my insides are in a mess, keep saying I need a laparoscopy but don’t do them for endometriosis routinely now they said - not worth the money apparently .

I’m in absolute agony today . I’m at my parents’ and my mum has given me a pack of cocodamol that she was prescribed ages ago for her neck . I’ve been on the floor most of the day in tears, severe pain down below as if someone is pulling my insides out .

I’ve had previous problems with codeine - prescribed for period pain in my late teens to early twenties - and manages to get off it totally in January .

I’ve taken two this afternoon and two again just now, I can’t move, I can’t get rid of the horrendous pain . I know it’s ‘just’ period pain, it normally leaves me vomiting/in bed but I think GP wanted me to try and learn to breathe through it/manage it all totally drug free .

I feel terrible for taking the codeine but totally unsure what else I could possibly do? Have tried ibuprofen, have tried a hot bottle, squatting, stretching, a shower .. I’ve previously tried a coil, mini pill, combined pill, northisterone, triptorelin and implanon so it’s not as if I’m not trying to find a solution ...

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Sunnysidegold · 03/08/2020 21:20

Oh gosh this sounds awful. I have endometriosis and have had terrible pain but it doesn't sound anywhere near as bad as yours!!

When you say you have had a problem with codeine, do you mean you were addicted? I think you maybe need a second opinion as it sounds like your Dr is quite dismissive of your pain. And the nurse clearly has "normal" periods so has no idea of how you're feeling.

I'm so sorry you're in so much pain, hopefully someone will be along soon with proper advice.

QuestionableMouse · 03/08/2020 21:23

Nothing wrong with taking painkillers if you need them.

If it's not helping the pain it might be visiting A&E as it could be a burst cyst or something.

cosmo30 · 03/08/2020 21:26

If the codeine doesn't help I'd be inclined to go to a&e. As a pp said it could be something more serious.
Also sounds like you were fobbed off about the lap! It's terrible you shouldn't just be expected to suffer

BubblyBarbara · 03/08/2020 21:36

Naproxen is really good for this sort of pain, see if you can get prescribed them

QuestionableMouse · 04/08/2020 12:54

How are you doing today @anonymous256969?

BillywigSting · 04/08/2020 12:59

Yanbu to have taken painkillers. I have suspected endo (all the symptoms but controlled by depo so haven't pushed for a lap as it seems pretty pointless currently) and I have had periods that hurt more than my induced labour. Actually blinding pain that I couldn't breathe through.

It sounds very much like you've been fobbed off. It might be common but it's certainly not normal and I would absolutely be looking for a second opinion in your position.

Hope it eases off for you soon op it's really rotten.

ClementineWoolysocks · 04/08/2020 13:13

Your GP and nurse are both way out of line, it's not normal to be in so much pain with your period that you cry and vomit. Change surgeries and report this one for appalling patient care.

PhilCornwall1 · 04/08/2020 13:17

If codeine is helping, take it, there is nothing unreasonable about taking painkillers for pain.

I have severe Rheumatoid Arthritis and can end up taking up to 8 codeine a day to get through.

You shouldn't have to live in pain, it's just not right.

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