I’m really fed up with him. He doesn’t care about anything. I’m really embarrassed of the front of the house in particular as paint is coming off, cracks and it’s generally in bad state. I told him December I’m going to call someone he flipped and said “stupid b*tch I’m not paying for someone you find”. He said he will sort it out but still nothing done 8 months later. This is obviously just one example I can’t write everything down. I’m really annoyed with him as the houses in the street are pristine and ours looks like a mess. We live in a lovely neighbourhood and People must talk about the state of our house. Paint is coming off and looks awful. I’m really fed up with him, he doesn’t sort anything but when I try to get someone in he has a meltdown. I wish I could write more things but I’ve confided one friends about past things and they might read and realise it’s me. What can I do? I can’t live like this with someone like him. He’s lazy