My partner works in a role where he has to take holidays at certain times of the year. He's just been given two weeks leave at short notice (around 48 hours). I have just gone back to work from being furloughed - I am working 80% of the week but my hours have been extended in some shitty loophole. I have for four months done absolutely everything whilst he has worked, including working full time for some of it (he also had to live away since much earlier than lockdown).
I haven't moaned or complained once but I am really fucking exhausted. As we were counted as a single parent household I formed a support bubble with family and we all (apart from him) went home for two weeks- I worked my hours throughout this but did get a bit of a break too with childcare, cooking etc.
My partner is now in a complete and utter huff because I won't take annual leave and have two weeks off with him. To do this would mean i would have to work overtime to cover a holiday later in the year.
He's still not living at home so he's not pulling any weight around the house etc. His second plan is to have a holiday here and do something everyday but I seriously don't have the energy for that either.
He won't take the kids on his own to see his family either (my suggestion).
Am I being hugely unreasonable in refusing to agree to doing a holiday thing everyday around work things and expecting him to even think about taking the children and giving me a bit of a break or am I being remotely acceptable in thinking like this?