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To ask for your worst date/sexual experience anecdotes?

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whatingodsname1 · 01/08/2020 05:03

Please can somebody top mine? This all occurred just a few hours ago and I honestly cannot sleep thinking about how bizarre it all was. Have had an extremely boring time of it throughout lockdown. Single mum to DD7. Haven’t actually been out for years. My mum has been desperate to have her for a night and I thought I fancied a date with somebody from t’interwebs. Not looking for anything serious, just wanted a bit of a fun one off ‘once in a blue moon’ type thing and am not really the clubbing type.

I’ve been speaking to one bloke for a week and we agreed to meet up last night. He looked bloody gorgeous. Both agreed beforehand that neither of us want a relationship, just a one off fun night, blablabla. Get to the pub where we agreed to meet and I realised the pics were clearly 10 years and 2 stone ago. But thought I might as well see the night through. He got quite drunk quite quickly and we had to get a train back to mine (live near the station). He was an obnoxious twat the whole train journey, declaring how he was going to make passengers uncomfortable by staring at them and also ripping apart some poor bloke’s hairstyle to me loudly.

Get back and to bed and he refused to take his shirt off. When I asked why he said it was because he has slight manboobs. We start shagging and it’s awful. He’s just on top of me grunting and at one point had to stifle a sneeze. After he came he lay next to me and started crying about how he’s lost access to his baby because he’s been struggling with a cocaine addiction. At that point I wanted him gone but he was in a right state. I pretended I was getting a headache and rang and paid for a taxi home for him and comforted him until it arrived. What else could I do? I also blocked his OLD account and number while sat next to him but he didn’t see.

Ergh ergh ergh. Won’t be doing this again. Can somebody please share their stories so I feel like I cannot claim the award for the worst date in all of existence.

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CodenameVillanelle · 01/08/2020 05:11

Oh my word, you need to toughen up if you're going to be out in the dating world!
You shagged him after his horrible train behaviour? Why? You paid for his taxi home???
I'm sorry you had such a horrible time but really. Raise your standards!
I've definitely shagged men because they were there and I didn't want to go back on my plans even when they did something awful but not since my early twenties.

DoIneed1 · 01/08/2020 05:14

YABU for shagging a man who quite clearly was a twat.

JuniperFather · 01/08/2020 05:16

He was an obnoxious twat the whole train journey

How did he make it to the bedroom from that? Just curious.

ohrien · 01/08/2020 05:21

What a cunt. Why on Earth not sack him off after the train behaviour?

But since you ask, once had a ONS with a man who during post-coital cuddling decided to declare that it was the 5 year anniversary of the end of the Bosnian war and proceeded to tell me all about the siege of Sarajevo Hmm

ChavvySexPond · 01/08/2020 05:21

Oh my goodness, a sunk costs fallacy shag. Wink

It is very long ago but I'll try and remember a terrible one. I may have blocked them all out.

Seeleyboo · 01/08/2020 06:35

2nd date with a bloke who said he was a copper. Picked him up as arranged and he was pissed..driving to his place and he kept grabbing the wheel of my car. At this point I realised he clearly isn't a copper. Got to his place for the planned romantic meal and he just spooned the pasta from the saucepan into his mouth and offered me a spoonful. I decided I was leaving but thought I will do it discreetly so announced I was off to the loo. He watched me so I went to the loo. Came out and he was stark bollock naked and announced.............I fucking love you Catherine Jones.......I just looked at him and decided I needed plan B. Told him to get ready for a wild night. He went to the bedroom. I grabbed my bag and left. BTW.....I have no idea who Catherine is Confused

rosegoldivy · 01/08/2020 06:43

Back in my younger days and my pre married single probably slutty life I was out clubbing and seen I guy I recognised from the gym, thought he was totally out of my league, anyway got chatting and went back to his and we ended up shagging, he was all over the place but hey we were drunk. Let's roll with it.

Then. While kissing my neck he then spat on my tits. Both of them individually. Think he thought it was passionate and sexy. Absolute mood killer.
I was absolutely disgusted and horrified. Then after he began talking about how we could train together and he couldn't wait to get into the gym with me.

Waited till he was in toilet and I got dressed, grabbed my shit and left to realise I didn't know where he lived. Obv too mortified to go back into the house so I walked about barefoot until I found a street sign and phoned a taxi.

I never went back to that gym.

I'm actual cringing writing this

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