I know I probably am. We weren't really friends, but we got on really well, went out to lunch together and so on, and as someone in a new country they were the only friends I had and felt a bit like family. My line manger especially was very supportive when we had some medical issues with DS - gave me so much flexibility and time off without making me take official leave, checked in often with how I was doing until she left. I want to ask how she is and show support. But I thought she might not want to hear from me until she had some news about finding work. At least that's how I'd feel but maybe I'm wrong and I've left it too late (3 months). She told me at the time she didn't want to tell her parents about being let go until she found another job. I'm hoping that a lagging issue with work will be a good excuse to send a message next week and ask how she is.