Basically myself and partner have a family car and he has a works car. I am not working right now (two with special needs makes it’s hard).
Generally partner takes his works car to work but sometime he’ll take the family car. Mainly if I don’t need it or if his car is playing up. During lockdown I never used it so he wanted to drive it, also if It needs fuel he’ll take it as he lives right next to a petrol station and it saves me taking dc to do it.
Anyhow, sometimes (not every day) he gives people lifts to work in his car but I have told him not to do it in our family car. Mainly because it gets it messy but now because of covid. Means I have to clean it and feel I have to disinfect it (I have ocd and health anxiety).
Anyway, yesterday he took my car to work.he came home and I had to take my grandma somewhere (she’s just lost her husband). I’ve been fully social distancing to keep her safe. He never told me give people lifts until after I was back home. I had only spend the afternoon cleaning it the day before now I have to go out and clean the inside (didn’t have time yesterday!)
Aibu to be annoyed at this? I’ve told him to say no to lifts if he’s in my car. It’s not like routinely gives people lifts to and from work, most of them could walk or get a lift from someone else or get a bus or taxi or just bleddy walk. He literally picks people up down the road from his work so they don’t have to walk.
Oh’s job is fairly low risk of covid but some of the colleagues he’s been given to work have partners who work in hospitals and some haven’t been following social distancing.
So now I’ve had a major panic attack that I’m gonna give my granny covid because she got into my car... after someone else sat in her seat the same morning.
All of this could have been avoided if he didn’t give lifts in my car 🤬🤬
Am I being ott?? How would you feel?