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To keep new cat shut away

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AverageHuman · 29/07/2020 12:47

So we have a new cat adopted from overseas where they have a tonne of strays. All the stuff it’s doing is totally normal (hiding, keeping me awake at night, flying up the chimney, getting wedged in floorboard holes..).
Since seeing her escapades we have her shut in the playroom and shes been hiding in there. Its been a week since she arrived now and I decided to get a big crate so she can be downstairs with us but not get lost in the house.
She totally freaked and scratched me and DH to bitS when I tried to put her in it.
Should I Just Block the holes then let her have free run of the house? I feel like I may have to But I’m not sure I can cope with not knowing where she is hiding at all times, whether shes even alive, or managed to escape, or whether she will Still eat and drink blah blah blah.
I’m finding it all more stressful than a newborn baby! At least they don't go anywhere for a few months!

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SomeHalfHumanCreatureThing · 29/07/2020 16:35

[quote AverageHuman]@SomeHalfHumanCreatureThing yes please! Should I message you my address?

@MadCatLady71 thank you. thats exactly what we’ve been doing and making progress.. should have just continued with that dammit[/quote]
Yeah, DM me your email, and I'll send through all the advice from the rescue

melj1213 · 29/07/2020 17:24

Dont rush the process is the key.

When I got a new cat they were left in the spare room for 2 weeks. The first week I mostly left her alone to get used to the place, and she always used to hide when anyone came in the room. Towards the end of the first week I started leaving an item of worn clothing in the room for her to get used to my scent. Then I started to go into the room and just sit with a book, or a podcast on my headphones and let her get used to my presence. If she came over I would pet her but I wouldnt search her out.

By the end of the second week she would come and settle on my lap as I read and was very comfortable with me and would come if I called her name. I then chose a day when I had no plans - so could be in all day, cat proofed the place and left the door open so she could explore.

It took her a few hours to come out but I just left her to explore. I just stayed on the sofa and by the end of the evening she was settled in my lap as usual. I put her back in "her" room overnight but from then on, whenever we were home she was allowed to roam free and we only put her in her closed room if we were going out, and then started to leave her free roaming when we went out for longer and longer periods.

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