I have a friend who I met about 20 years ago. She has had a difficult few years and we have talked at least every few weeks, setting up a call in advance. At the beginning of lock down we kept up the pattern, but I realized last week that I havent talked to her for a few months. I have had a difficult situation at work and have elderly parents who are not coping well with shielding, so had definitely not been on top of thins. So, I got in touch and we set up a zoom call for last Saturday. About 30 minutes before the call, I got a message from her saying she had a migraine and was not up to the call but would call me the next day. The next day I got a cheery text saying she had slept really well and woken at 5am. Text came at 8pm. She wanted to reschedule to a day this week for our call. I can understand if she couldnt talk because of a migraine but surely you just call the next day if you said you would? I texted back that i had stuff booked every evening this week (which I do) but offering some other days. And havent heard back. AIBU to feel annoyed with her?