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To ask you to tell me your favourite poet/poem

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Ethelfleda · 28/07/2020 13:27

I’ve always been quite dense on the topic
I till recently reading ‘The Road Not Taken’ which I loved! I have started to read a little more and am really getting in to it!
So thought I would ask the great MN collective about favourite poets/poems/anthologies

OP posts:
Tomhardyshadabath · 28/07/2020 21:15

A wish for my children - Evangeline Paterson

Letsdoanamechangeagain · 28/07/2020 21:18

I love "This be the verse" by P. Larkin

They fuck you up, your mum and dad.

They may not mean to, but they do.

They fill you with the faults they had
And add some extra, just for you.

But they were fucked up in their turn
By fools in old-style hats and coats,

Who half the time were soppy-stern
And half at one another’s throats.

Man hands on misery to man.
It deepens like a coastal shelf.
Get out as early as you can,
And don’t have any kids yourself.

(Irony of posting this on a parenting forum, I do have DC, and no particular beef with my parents. Regardless, I love the brutal honesty of it!)

I also love the Highway Man, it's so descriptive and so easy to visualise the story.

goose1964 · 28/07/2020 21:42

And death shall have no dominion by Dylan Thomas. I won't post here as it is not the most cheerful poem but I was obsessed by it when I was younger.

Lifeisgenerallyfun · 28/07/2020 21:45

Oh so many it’s hard to pick one

W b yeats - The Second Coming (speaks to my Beliefs)
Wilfred Owen - Dulce Et decorum est.. it was the first poem I saw acted out and I realised what poetry was And could be rather than boring words written on a page in English Lessons.
Blake (well everything) particularly the marriage of heaven and hell (how to turn your world view upside down). I truly believe if you crack Blake you find the meaning of life.
Samuel Taylor coleridge -Christabel, an unfinished constant conundrum I think I’ve come up with about 100 endings.

Jaberwocky -Lewis carol simultaneously ridiculous whilst showcasing the ingenuity of the human mind and wonders of language.

Poetry is the soul in full view of the world.

CatkinToadflax · 28/07/2020 21:49

‘Here Lies A Tree’ by Pooh (with assistance from A A Milne). In fact, all of Pooh’s poetical ramblings. He’s a wise old bear, that one. Smile

Genderwitched · 28/07/2020 21:50

Grief of a Girl’s Heart

O Donal Oge, if you go across the sea,
Bring myself with you and do not forget it;
And you will have a sweetheart for fair days and market days,
And the daughter of the King of Greece beside you at night.

It was late last night the dog was speaking of you;
The snipe was speaking of you in her deep marsh.
It is you are the lonely bird through the woods;
And that you may be without a mate until you find me.

You promised me, and you said a lie to me,
That you would be before me where the sheep are flocked;
I gave a whistle and three hundred cries to you,
And I found nothing there but a bleating lamb.

You promised me a thing that was hard for you,
A ship of gold under a silver mast;
Twelve towns with a market in all of them
And a fine white court by the side of the sea.

You promised me a thing that is not possible
That you would give me gloves of the skin of a fish;
That you would give me shoes of the skin of a bird;
And a suit of the dearest silk in Ireland.

O Donal Oge, it is I would be better to you
Than a high, proud, spendthrift lady:
I would milk the cow; I would bring help to you;
And if you were hard pressed, I would strike a blow for you.

You have taken the east from me; you have taken the west from me,
You have taken what is before me and what is behind me;
You have taken the moon, you have taken the sun from me,
And my fear is great that you have taken God from me!

Anonymous
Tr. from the Irish by Augusta Gregory.

EveryDayIsADuvetDay · 28/07/2020 21:51

Love this one - Tea - Carol Ann Duffy

I like pouring your tea, lifting
the heavy pot, and tipping it up,
so the fragrant liquid streams in your china cup.

Or when you’re away, or at work,
I like to think of your cupped hands as you sip,
as you sip, of the faint half-smile of your lips.

I like the questions – sugar? – milk? –
and the answers I don’t know by heart, yet,
for I see your soul in your eyes, and I forget.

Jasmine, Gunpowder, Assam, Earl Grey, Ceylon,
I love tea’s names. Which tea would you like? I say
but it’s any tea for you, please, any time of day,

as the women harvest the slopes
for the sweetest leaves, on Mount Wu-Yi,
and I am your lover, smitten, straining your tea.

EveryDayIsADuvetDay · 28/07/2020 21:54

and Adlestrop by Edward Thomas

PeterPomegranate · 28/07/2020 21:54

I am not really a big poetry person. But two poems I Particularly like:

Scaffolding by Seamus Heaney

The Two-Headed Calf by Laura Gilpin (this is very sad)

LaPoesieEstDansLaRue · 28/07/2020 21:55

I love Wilfred Owen's WW1 poetry and my favourite is Futility (although "favourite" seems like a strange word considering the topic)

LittleRa · 28/07/2020 21:55

The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock by T. S. Eliot

Chocolateandamaretto · 28/07/2020 21:57

@Letsdoanamechangeagain This be the verse is the first poem I ever learned off by heart! It’s funny because it’s true, I love how blunt he is.

In a totally different vein, one of my favourite poems is “Wild Geese” by Mary Oliver. Someone pinned it on the wall at one of my old jobs when we were all having a shit time of it because of the crappy senior management. It’s stuck with me:

Wild Geese
You do not have to be good.
You do not have to walk on your knees
for a hundred miles through the desert repenting.
You only have to let the soft animal of your body
love what it loves.
Tell me about despair, yours, and I will tell you mine.
Meanwhile the world goes on.
Meanwhile the sun and the clear pebbles of the rain
are moving across the landscapes,
over the prairies and the deep trees,
the mountains and the rivers.
Meanwhile the wild geese, high in the clean blue air,
are heading home again.
Whoever you are, no matter how lonely,
the world offers itself to your imagination,
calls to you like the wild geese, harsh and exciting -
over and over announcing your place
in the family of things.

tunnocksreturns2019 · 28/07/2020 21:58

Edwin Morgan

ranoutofquinoaandprosecco · 28/07/2020 22:00

Everyone grumbled. The sky was grey.
We had nothing to do and nothing to say.
We were nearing the end of a dismal day,
And there seemed to be nothing beyond,
THEN
Daddy fell into the pond!

And everyone's face grew merry and bright,
And Timothy danced for sheer delight.
'Give me the camera, quick, oh quick!
He's crawling out of the duckweed.'
Click!

Then the gardener suddenly slapped his knee,
And doubled up, shaking silently,
And the ducks all quacked as if they were daft
And is sounded as if the old drake laughed.

O, there wasn't a thing that didn't respond
When daddy fell into the pond!

tunnocksreturns2019 · 28/07/2020 22:01

Poetry has helped me grieve for my husband. Here’s one that helps.

The Milk-cart
Edwin Morgan

Where are you in this darkness? I put out
a hand, the branch outside
touches only cold October air
and loses leaves, it is hard
to wish for you, harder to sleep, useless to weep.
How can I bear the darkness empty
and how can the darkness bear love?

I bore the darkness lying still, thinking
you were against my heart,
till I heard the milk-cart horse
come clattering down the hill
and the brash clear whistle
of the milk-boy dancing
on his frosty doorsteps,
uncaring as the morning star.
Come back to me - from anywhere come back!
I’ll see you standing in my door,
though the whistling fades to air.

tunnocksreturns2019 · 28/07/2020 22:03

Also:

When you go
Edwin Morgan

When you go,
if you go,
And I should want to die,
there's nothing I'd be saved by
more than the time
you fell asleep in my arms
in a trust so gentle
I let the darkening room
drink up the evening, till
rest, or the new rain
lightly roused you awake.
I asked if you heard the rain in your dream
and half dreaming still you only said, I love you.

Chocolateandamaretto · 28/07/2020 22:04

I’m sorry for your loss, Tunnocks Flowers

Blackcountryexile · 28/07/2020 22:08

@Toofaroutallmylife I have also only discovered Mary Oliver recently. Her poetry is so uplifting
I also love On Chesil Beachby Matthew Arnold
Philip Larkin especially Arundel Tomb and Maiden Name
The poems Sylvia Plath wrote about her children, Child and Morning Song

ZeldalovesLink · 28/07/2020 22:08

I love T S Eliot’s ‘Four Quartets’ and I have a real soft spot for Edwin Muir (particularly ‘The Horses’, which I think is particularly apt in present troubled times) but I think my favourite poem ever is the beautiful and haunting ‘A Disused Shed in Co. Wexford’ by Derek Mahon:
Let them not forget us, the weak souls among the asphodels.
—Seferis, Mythistorema

(for J. G. Farrell)

Even now there are places where a thought might grow —
Peruvian mines, worked out and abandoned
To a slow clock of condensation,
An echo trapped for ever, and a flutter
Of wildflowers in the lift-shaft,
Indian compounds where the wind dances
And a door bangs with diminished confidence,
Lime crevices behind rippling rain barrels,
Dog corners for bone burials;
And in a disused shed in Co. Wexford,

Deep in the grounds of a burnt-out hotel,
Among the bathtubs and the washbasins
A thousand mushrooms crowd to a keyhole.
This is the one star in their firmament
Or frames a star within a star.
What should they do there but desire?
So many days beyond the rhododendrons
With the world waltzing in its bowl of cloud,
They have learnt patience and silence
Listening to the rooks querulous in the high wood.

They have been waiting for us in a foetor
Of vegetable sweat since civil war days,
Since the gravel-crunching, interminable departure
Of the expropriated mycologist.
He never came back, and light since then
Is a keyhole rusting gently after rain.
Spiders have spun, flies dusted to mildew
And once a day, perhaps, they have heard something —
A trickle of masonry, a shout from the blue
Or a lorry changing gear at the end of the lane.

There have been deaths, the pale flesh flaking
Into the earth that nourished it;
And nightmares, born of these and the grim
Dominion of stale air and rank moisture.
Those nearest the door grow strong —
‘Elbow room! Elbow room!’
The rest, dim in a twilight of crumbling
Utensils and broken pitchers, groaning
For their deliverance, have been so long
Expectant that there is left only the posture.

A half century, without visitors, in the dark —
Poor preparation for the cracking lock
And creak of hinges; magi, moonmen,
Powdery prisoners of the old regime,
Web-throated, stalked like triffids, racked by drought
And insomnia, only the ghost of a scream
At the flash-bulb firing-squad we wake them with
Shows there is life yet in their feverish forms.
Grown beyond nature now, soft food for worms,
They lift frail heads in gravity and good faith.

They are begging us, you see, in their wordless way,
To do something, to speak on their behalf
Or at least not to close the door again.
Lost people of Treblinka and Pompeii!
‘Save us, save us,’ they seem to say,
‘Let the god not abandon us
Who have come so far in darkness and in pain.
We too had our lives to live.
You with your light meter and relaxed itinerary,
Let not our naive labours have been in vain!’

Shinygoldbauble · 28/07/2020 22:09

I love poetry. I have many favourites and I love poems that paint a picture in words, like this one by Gwendolyn Brooks.

The Pool Players.
Seven at the Golden Shovel.

        We real cool. We   
        Left school. We

        Lurk late. We
        Strike straight. We

        Sing sin. We   
        Thin gin. We

        Jazz June. We   
        Die soon.
XFPW · 28/07/2020 22:10

I couldn’t choose a favourite poem - there are far too many. I read a lot of poetry (always had an interest in literature and am now a speech and drama teacher so it goes with the job) - some I like, some I adore, some I positively hate! Poetry evokes strong feelings in me.

If you enjoyed The Road Not Taken then search out some other of Frost’s work - he has some lovely poems which I’m sure you’ll enjoy - Stopping by woods on a snowy evening, Mending wall, Birches and Death of a hired man are some of my favourites of his.

If you like Frost then I’d also definitely recommend Seamus Heaney (if I absolutely had to choose a favourite poet it would be Heaney).

Owen Sheers is a Welsh poet I have discovered in recent years and I am really starting to enjoy.

Ditto to the suggestions above of Mary Oliver and Maya Angelou. I also have a real soft spot for Rainer Maria Rilke and Wordsworth.

LightDrizzle · 28/07/2020 22:14

My favourite poem is To His Coy Mistress by Andrew Marvell. It is a perfect conceit, and the shift in tone makes me shiver every time.

Had we but World enough, and Time,
This coyness Lady were no crime.
We would sit down, and think which way
To walk, and pass our long Loves Day.
Thou by the Indian Ganges side
Should'st Rubies find: I by the Tide
Of Humber would complain. I would
Love you ten years before the Flood:
And you should if you please refuse
Till the Conversion of the Jews.
My vegetable Love should grow
Vaster than Empires, and more slow.
A hundred years should go to praise
Thine Eyes, and on thy Forehead Gaze.
Two hundred to adore each breast:
But thirty thousand to the rest.
An Age at least to every part,
And the last Age should show your Heart.
For Lady you deserve this State;
Nor would I love at lower rate.
But at my back I always hear
Times winged chariot hurrying near:
And yonder all before us lye
Desarts of vast Eternity.
Thy Beauty shall no more be found,
Nor, in thy marble Vault, shall sound
My ecchoing Song: then Worms shall try
That long preserv'd Virginity:
And your quaint Honour turn to dust;
And into ashes all my Lust.
The Grave's a fine and private place,
But none I think do there embrace.
Now therefore, while the youthful hew
Sits on thy skin like morning dew,
And while thy willing Soul transpires
At every pore with instant Fires,
Now let us sport us while we may;
And now, like am'rous birds of prey,
Rather at once our Time devour,
Than languish in his slow-chapt pow'r.
Let us roll all our Strength, and all
Our sweetness, up into one Ball:
And tear our Pleasures with rough strife,
Thorough the Iron gates of Life.
Thus, though we cannot make our Sun
Stand still, yet we will make him run.

MarieInternette · 28/07/2020 22:15

Ode to Ketchup

If you do not shake the bottle
None will come, and then a lottle.

Genius

SoosanCarter · 28/07/2020 22:16

This. It’s heart achingly true

By Edna St. Vincent Millay

Time does not bring relief; you all have lied

Who told me time would ease me of my pain!

I miss him in the weeping of the rain;

I want him at the shrinking of the tide;
The old snows melt from every mountain-side,

And last year’s leaves are smoke in every lane;

But last year’s bitter loving must remain
Heaped on my heart, and my old thoughts abide.

There are a hundred places where I fear

To go,—so with his memory they brim.

And entering with relief some quiet place

Where never fell his foot or shone his face

I say, “There is no memory of him here!”

And so stand stricken, so remembering him.

CGWGWOO · 28/07/2020 22:20

Dr John Cooper Clark.

I wanna be yours

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