Follow up from ‘His family hate me; I can’t do this’, previous thread here: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/3976510-His-family-hate-me-I-can-t-do-this
Though my partner is supporting me and has told his mum that we won’t be contacting her until she can be civil with me, I’m getting anxiety about how he’s feeling and wondering whether he would be better off without me.
Though he’s never been very honest with his mum, they had never fought before this all happened, and it’s making me feel guilty because she hasn’t even reached out to him to check he’s okay.
He doesn’t really talk about his feelings but he’s not really eating and I know he feels very down about it all.
I’m not sure how to fix the situation because his family have said they want nothing to do with me so I’m starting to think the only logical solution would be for us to split up. I don’t want him to be depressed and anxious because of all of this and I don’t want him to split from his family, but at the same time I don’t want to be treated how I am.
I would be really grateful if anyone has any suggestions on how I can help the situation. We have a baby together and are otherwise incredibly happy, close and open. So obviously I don’t want to split up and it probably is my anxiety talking - but I don’t want him to be feeling depressed and then in a few weeks/months start to resent me and feel I have ruined the relationship with his family.
Thank you x