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to think it's next to impossible to have days out in this country

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penelopeplums · 24/07/2020 15:39

I looked on the OS map and found a lake not far from here, not close enough to walk to but close enough to drive to. 2 parking spaces according to the trust who own it so we set off. When we got there both parking spaces were at the end of a single track lane with two gates both with signs saying no parking. There were three stiles, none marked public footpath and one blocked off with barbed wire.

Never mind, we decided to go to some wildflower meadows that we'd found the details of. We got there expecting to park on the road as the website said it was possible. We did indeed park on the road but there was no indication whatsoever where these wildflower meadows were despite the details we found online (again from the owners) saying there was a public footpath along the edge of the meadows. We put the location on on my phone and sure enough we were in the right place.

Never mind again. Lets go to a water park where their web site says there is parking and lake side walks which allow social distancing. There are apparently plenty of activities for families to do even when social distancing is an issue - hiring rowing boats, kayaks etc. We get there and it's a private mobile home site as well and there is no public parking available as it's all being used for the mobile home site and parking is not allowed on the adjacent road as it's a narrow country lane.

All we wanted was to be able to go for a walk somewhere without spending a fortune but ended up driving round for three hours and not being able to do any of the things we had hoped to do.

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AnneBullen · 24/07/2020 20:57

Just to recommend this website if you are looking for walks in London/Home Counties. Meticulously researched and never let us down fancyfreewalks.org

RaspberryToupee · 24/07/2020 20:59

You had bad luck. It sometimes happen. There have been days we’ve got somewhere and there’s no parking. At the moment places are busier than usual. It’s going to happen.

However, to say that it’s next to impossible to have days out in this country is just ridiculous. There are miles upon miles of public right of ways. Several areas of outstanding natural beauty and national parks. We have miles of coastline. We have English heritage, NT, local wildlife trust sites, local nature reserves. Every town I’ve ever visited even has several country parks. That’s before we get into things to do that are indoors like museums, art galleries. Most people in the UK will be a max of a 2 hours drive from any number of these things at any one point. Today, you had bad luck. That’s all it is. Leave a review that the websites aren’t displaying the correct parking information if you really feel outraged.

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