DH went to the pub the other night. He is not very good at knowing when to call it a night. So with the new rules, and I'm guessing no late night drinking available, he decided that he'd bring his mates back here when the pub closed to continue drinking.
We have young kids and so this would not be the obvious choice for a late night drinking venue imo. To add to this DH knows that I'm a bad sleeper and it always takes me forever to get back to sleep once I'm disturbed. He had been told in no uncertain terms that he was not to wake me when he got back (he's been known to start playing the sodding guitar at 3am). I'd already been kept up half the night before due to his snoring and I've been unwell so he knew I was desperate for a good nights sleep.
According to him it was ok as they sat in the garden and were "quiet". Well I think we all know that drunk people's idea of quiet is different to most people's and at that time of night sound really carries. My poor neighbours!
In the end I sent him some cross texts and told him to send everyone packing or I'd be down to do it myself. He's still not speaking to me and is acting as though I'm in the wrong. AIBU or is it not on to rock up at home at almost midnight with your drunk mates on a work night with your wife and young kids trying to sleep?
To add that it seems every time he goes out he manages to disturb me in some way when he gets back home so that I end up spending the next day feeling as tired as if I had been out myself!