To quarantine friends and family from us?

[Overcautiouscorona]

We are still being cautious for a number of reasons (I care for a shielded person, family health reasons, self employed so no sick pay/damage to business if we have to self isolate etc) I have no problems with other people being less cautious however..

Aibu to not meet up with friends /family/kids friends for 14 days if they have been somewhere I consider risky. For example sister is currently in Spain and I don't want to see her until she has been back well for 14 days. Another friends is going to Alton Towers and staying in a hotel for three days, I don't want to see them until they are back 14 days. However both the above think I'm completely barmy and BU. Would appreciate your thoughts.

Tldr
Iabu to expect not to see someone for 14 days after going on a plane/theme park
Ianbu 14 days is sensible

I’m with you on the plane thing; not so much Alton towers but do what makes you comfortable

It’s absolutely your choice.
And no one should berate you for it.
I have a friend who doesn’t want to mix yet. She goes to work and that’s it.
I don’t force her and respect her choice.

Entirely up to you, but they are just as likely to catch it here as they are anywhere else.

But after they have came back from where they were they might have been other places like restaurants, zoos, play parks etc. Where do you draw the line?

Just don’t see them if you don’t want to.