@OcarinBear: I actually don't, so part of asking is to have a list of schools and combine both criteria, but solihull seemed too far to me (there was a school I liked there, although someone mentioned it is only up to 5).
@CrotchetyQuaver: it's more than about paying (which of course, I prefer not to). I do know the school you mention, and this is the kind of thing I am looking for. I know I won't find it outside of the private sector, but I would find the closest possible (therefore, forest school).
@Fuschia657: yes, complicated life and minimization of commute times :D But please, do mention these villages, I am open to anything for now, I just need to make it fit into my many constraints (mainly: train near by+not too far from uni)
@Duckswaddle: I will take a look, thanks! I had seen that school, I had registered it as a potential option.
@bridgetreilly: I will ask about assemblies, thanks for the advice. Someone discouraged to opt-out from those as it may somehow stigmatize the child. I will find out if she'd be the only one or there are more kids and do something with their time.
@Lifeisgenerallyfun: I do consider budget, I am not considering buying for now, I know Bournville may be hard otherwise (no rentals essentially). I am driving, but my life is complicated (I know, everyone's is to a certain degree), so I would like to make it as easy as possible. I don't have a clear idea of what's realistic, but 20 mins would be my very max. commute time...Unless I find out this is not doable!
@BackforGood: I feel very strongly about it, it is not an option, possibly due to my origins, but that's how it is. Personally, although I would like my child to succeed academically, I don't share the way this is achieved in most schools, so I can compromise and find a less pushy school which is more balanced in other ways. I now know my list is contradictory, I gathered it from Ofsted and some other websites. I have learned thanks to the help of other parents here; I think I am getting a better idea of the British system. I am moving this fall, so I am well in time for the applications.