The UAE government has made huge strides over the last decade to improve human rights. Like with all laws, there are unscrupulous individuals seeking to find loopholes. They use loopholes to abuse workers, and the government is continually designing and implementing legislation to close them. As someone who has visited worker accommodation on many occasions, and my DH volunteers his time as an independent inspector, we know that the vast majority of workers are treated with respect. If those of you who doubt this are ever interested, it is possible to visit worker accommodation as part of voluntary work during and beyond the Year of Tolerance. People run Zumba classes, teach dancing, Art, run sports clubs. Just DM me.
In terms of the widespread belief about being raped, it’s important to recognise that many countries got it wrong for years. Thankfully, the UAE no longer prosecutes survivors, as this responsibility has been moved to the non sharia courts. If you follow The National, you will note that they are no longer talking about prosecutions. This is a controversial change given the delicate balance between the religious and political authorities, and so there is no bold announcement. I think we can all agree, however, that this is a great step forward.
As for whether everyone is leaving, bear in mind that on FB groups - there is a selection bias around posting. People not struggling or leaving don’t need advice, or need to say goodbye. Dubai has largely opened up again, and there have been lots of cash injections into the economy from the government. If a company is carrying through with the hiring process and moving your DH, then I wouldn’t be worried.
Trailing spouse is a thing to consider - my DH was a trailing husband, and worked at home for a US based company until they set up their UAE base. Divorces here are very much in the favour of the woman. Your DH has a responsibility to pay for housing, education, living costs. If he doesn’t, he would go to jail until he pays up. There are also changes in the visa system to allow divorcees to seek work more easily. The British Embassy are very helpful in these situations too, as are a plethora of lawyers who specialize in such cases.