Aibu to think that no man would be interested in this situation?

[shellsontheshore]

I am a divorced mother of three. My children are early to late teens, one of them is more dependent that the norm but relatively independent still.
I am in mid forties. I would really enjoy a situation where I could
Enjoy the company of someone special a couple of times per month, to see films, eat out, theatre etc but I would
Like this to be sexual and exclusive too. Preferably a man with children.
I would not like to get married again or
Live with someone at least until
My children have left home and started their own lives. I would like to travel
And have holidays with someone special though.
My ex has children eow and a few weeks holidays per year aswell as a couple of evenings per week when they are not busy with sport.
Any thoughts on this? Am I asking for too much? Could it work?

That sounds promising .i am reluctant to do on line as I'm not very trusting but am
Limited with socialising especially at the moment

It’s exactly what I’d like, a bit down the track. I have no plans to ever live with a man again and I like my own space (plus I have kids) but I would enjoy seeing a partner regularly for chats, sex, activities, dinners out, mutual emotional support, and so on. In time they would be introduced to the DC but certainly not as a father figure. DC already have a loving dad anyway.

Another school mum and her partner have this. They’re very much a couple and have a child together, but they’ve never lived together.