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To be a little bit miffed with gp’s response?

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Snowdropfairy85 · 16/07/2020 12:21

After years now of scans and appointments with a gynae about my reproductive health, And general feelings of exhaustion and poor health it has just been determined (pending blood tests for confirmation) that I have PCOS. Just had a phone appointment with GP who said to me that polycystic ovaries “are just one of those things” and I got the impression he was basically content to leave it there. To give some background, I had no problems or symptoms of PCOS until after birth of my second child, during which I had gestation diabetes. Since then I’ve had periods lasting 14 days of bleeding that are anywhere from 36 to 25 days apart, as well as bleeding between periods on occasion. I’ve also got bad acne along my jaw line and gets spots on my chest, excess facial hair, suffer with anxiety and joint pain, get tingling in my limbs. At the moment my feet are so stiff and painful in the morning and after sitting down for short periods it hurts to walk. When I mentioned this to the GP he said he didn’t think that was anything to worry about. In the end I got a bit fed up and said I was hoping to explore Metformin as a treatment for PCOS, to which he said it wouldn’t help my weight, my acne or my excess hair, purely my fertility. Obviously I’m not a medical professional but this isn’t what my research online has said at all about Metformin, it’s a widely used treatment for the symptoms of PCOS and can slow the progression into type 2 diabetes, something I’m concerned about having had gestation diabetes and my own father having type 2 diabetes. Eventually I persisted on the “I’d like some kind of treatment to ease my symptoms and make me feel healthier” he agreed to do blood tests and look talk about trying metformin. Is it unreasonable to feel like it shouldn’t be that hard work to get some help? Maybe I’m being over sensitive I don’t know.

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igotdemons · 16/07/2020 15:55

The endocrinologist is the best person to see in respect of your PCOS care OP, not your GP. I was prescribed metformin by my endocrinologist, not my GP. I was told that taking metformin helps with the insulin resistance, weightloss (though not guaranteed) and regulating periods.

It’s hard to say whether the metformin helps me specifically as I do take other PCOS supplements (inositol, chromium and saw palmetto) so it could be a combination of both. I’ve been very overweight for a while which seems to shut my system down a little and now that I’ve lost 18kgs my periods have returned, so now I have other horrible symptoms to deal with. I’m hoping that by continuing my weight loss journey that these will improve. My blood sugar was nearly in the pre diabetic range before I lost this weight (and I wasn’t taking metformin due to IBS issues) but I’m getting that checked again next week so I’m hoping that it will have improved as that’s my biggest worry.

Snowdropfairy85 · 16/07/2020 16:00

Thanks for sharing, I will push for the referral to endocrinologist.

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myfurloughedfriend · 16/07/2020 17:02

I didn't really find it helped with weight loss - I'm still on that journey - but one thing I do know is that the only way I have ever lost weight is with a low carb diet.

I hope you can get help from another GP

igotdemons · 16/07/2020 17:14

@myfurloughedfriend I wish I could go low carb but I just can’t, I love them too much! 😫 I have really cut down on bread though, used to eat that everyday, now it’s a rare treat. I’ve lost mine by fasting and eating one meal a day, it really works for me 😊

trinity0097 · 16/07/2020 17:16

Low carb helps with PCOS and weight issues, and by association diabetes.

greenestolives · 16/07/2020 17:20

Write to Nadine Dorries MP - only the other day she was apologising for the poor treatment of women's health issues. I'm sure she would want to know that you are not receiving any support or offers of help from your GP and have basically been told to put up with it.

RedOasis · 16/07/2020 17:31

I got a diagnosis on something years ago. Now gps always say it’s that whenever I have other health issues which I KNOW are not related. What I really really need is a scan of my lower back so I can get proper treatment but it will never happen. Someone said to me “ so you’ll know what’s wrong but how does that make any difference “. So I am believed when I say I’m in agony. I’m believed when j say the painkillers I have don’t work. Believed when I say I am struggling to walk and in agony ALL THE TIME. And to get any medical help that will ease my symptoms or slow down the progression. I hate doctors

Fruitbowlflowers · 16/07/2020 17:35

Try this book OP - author had pcos and refused to take no for an answer that there was nothing she could do to help herself.

To be a little bit miffed with gp’s response?
Snowdropfairy85 · 16/07/2020 18:14

Fruitbowlflowers thank you I’ll take a look.

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vivariumvivariumsvivaria · 16/07/2020 18:28

I have a diagnosis of PCOS but my GP won't give me metformin or refer me to endocrinology.

I'll go back with that paper, thanks, PP.

I have lost 17lbs in a year. It is painfully slow and takes a LOT of effort, but, I just don't shift the weight. It worries me.

mrsbyers · 16/07/2020 18:56

I think it was inappropriate for you to ask for metformin from self diagnosing but he should have offered blood tests. I had PCOS and managed to lose a lot of weight - yes it can increase fat storage but it’s not an excuse not to try . I used to have the same conversation around my weight in reality I was over eating

Snowdropfairy85 · 16/07/2020 19:51

mrsbuyers I didn’t outright ask for it, I said it was something I had heard could help in response to him saying that the symptoms I’m suffering with including bleeding for 14 days straight every month are “just one of those things” basically he was going to end the conversation there, which I didn’t think was right.

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DoAsYouWouldBeMumBy · 16/07/2020 20:10

@OP, the foot issue you're having sounds a lot like plantar fasciitis. There are ways to treat that, so it might be worth checking that out.

Snowdropfairy85 · 16/07/2020 21:20

Thank you DoAsYouWouldBeMumBy I will read up on it.

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ravensoaponarope · 16/07/2020 21:46

I was just coming on to suggest plantar fasciitis for the foot thing.
Re the rest, it's disgraceful to be told just to put up with it. I hope the next GP you see is both supportive and proactive in helping you.

wishful2012 · 16/07/2020 22:13

If it's your period causing problems I believe the contraceptive pill helps with that and reduces hairs issues. GP's generally treat the problems that pcos cause. I used that hair cream which helps but I went for laser treatment in the end

TuMeke · 16/07/2020 23:45

Women’s health issues are typically just so minimised and dismissed. It is enraging Angry

Some great suggestions from PPs here. You could also see if you can find a PCOS support group locally - they will have lots of experience, advice and resources to help you explore the treatment and management options. Plus their advocacy might help you get heard!

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