I am at work today and this evening, DH home with DC. He sent me a selfie of them all in the car. It looked like he was driving at the time so I asked him if they were parked. No response but tbh I'd forgotten about it.
Spoke to him on the phone just now and he randomly said 'oh and don't be so boring.' When I queried this I got 'well instead of saying 'oh nice pic' or something you just sent me a snotty text asking if I was driving.'
So I asked if he had been driving, and he said yes but it was fine because the phone was on the little holder clip thing on the dashboard, so no difference to setting the satnav. I said it's still dangerous (unnecessary focus on/ fiddling with phone, plus in the picture he's clearly grinning at the phone instead of watching the road) and that tbh I don't think you should set the satnav while driving either, and should do it before you go. But at least if you do change it while driving there's a point to that! Taking selfies while driving just seems barmy. I asked him to promise not to do it again and he called me boring several more times.
So I hung up on him
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To be fair I know I am oversensitive about being called boring as mother and sister tended to level that at me a lot as a teenager and young adult. And I shouldn't have hung up on him. BUT in this case I don't think I'm just being risk-averse, and that this is pointlessly dangerous! AIBU??