When my mat leave was over a month ago I got the choice from working at home or coming into work.
I decided to work at home only if husband agreed to look after LO on Mondays. I was told I just needed to come in on Mondays (husband has day off from work) to complete tasks that cannot be completed from home.
He said he will feed etc.
Today is the third Monday. I got to work for 6am. I had lots to do. I worked from 6am to 4pm with no break and I worked through my lunch break.
- Yesterday I made lunch to take for today but my husband came home late last night and said he was hungry so I gave him my lunch. The morning was a rush so I couldn't make anything to eat.
I come home and the house was a big mess. I had to take a shower first before cleaning.
I told husband to feed LO. It was her feeding time. I had my shower came down and he was playing with her and said oh she isn't drinking. Sounded strange because her last feed was 4 hours ago.
I gave her the bottle and she started drinking.
He put dinner in the oven. He just puts anything he can find in the kitchen together and calls that dinner.
I ask him if has fixed the cot for LO bedroom (which he promised) but says no. He says I will do it now in 5 mins.
It went over an hour. LO was getting restless and I was trying to entertain her.
He randomly comes down and says where is my dinner. I said you never said you were done.
I quickly try to tidy up. The room was a big mess.
He brings his dinner to the table and just starts to eat. I was talking to him but he didn't reply.
So it doesn't escalate I sit down to eat too. I was talking to him but he continued to ignore me. I asked him what was the problem and he ignored again. I got up.
Went and did food shopping for LO.
Came back and washed the dishes.
He has gone to the bedroom and I'm downstairs with LO. Still not talking.
Did I do something wrong?