So. We split up over 2 years ago before baby was even born and he has him once a week because i work during the week so my son goes to nursery so just would t make sense for him to stay there during the week as it’s a 20 minute drive to he’s house and he doesn’t drive I don’t want my child going on public transport during a pandemic neither does he.
So anyway it was He’s night on the Saturday and I asked if I could pick him up Sunday morning and he said he was going to keep him there til 3 so he could spend time with him. Come Sunday morning at 8am I get a message can you get our son once your dressed because I want to go shopping.
Okay so I wouldn’t normally mind right but he is currently furloughed so can go shopping any other day of the week why does he need to go on the day he see’s he’s child and was claiming he wanted to spend time with him - so in my eyes he’s putting a shopping trip before he’s child.
Him constantly messing up arrangements is a normal thing and we argue majority of the time not infront of our son it’s over text if anything so I have asked him if we could put a parenting arrangement together and if he would sign it so atleast we have something in writing but he said no because I am being pathetic.
Please I want ur honest opinions even if I’m wrong I dontknow If I’m over reacting because this isn’t the first time I feel like our son isn’t he’s first priority.