To feel sad that my daughter doesn't want to spend time with me?

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Just that really...
My daughter is 10 and never really wants to spend any quality time with me. I've suggested a movie night with snacks or a pamper afternoon/evening with music or whatever she wants to do, A girls day out of her choice but she is just not interested. She would rather stay in her room.
Any ideas why she is like this and what I can do to encourage her to spend some time with me please? I don't expect her to be with me every spare minute of the day but once a week would be nice.

She sounds quite normal for her age and no doubt you've been together a lot more than usual, recently.

Let any suggestion come from her.

Why a 'girls' day out. Maybe she's into other stuff. Why not ask what she would like to do.

This is pretty normal, she may have started a little earlier, but around this age the natural separation process starts. I think it could also be lockdown contributing as I love my husband very much but sometimes I just want to sit in the bedroom alone.

I'm not sure, I think it depends on what she is doing in her room. Is she on a phone/gaming all the time or is she reading/playing/other stuff?

If it's all phone/online then I'd be wondering if she is talking to people and who she is online with. Does she have a switch off time for screens in the evening? Maybe just put a film on after dinner that you like but that she would also enjoy and see if she comes to watch as well.

What is she doing in her room? On screens?

Do you have rules/limits on screen use?

Does she normally do activities with friends - swimming, clubs? (Pre lockdown)