In laws are somewhat vulnerable to coronavirus. Not shielding but vulnerable with health problems and between March and June took it very seriously. We’ve seen them a couple times a few weeks ago in the garden, no problem.
I decided to send dc back to school about 3 weeks ago and we haven’t seen them since. I was really badly judged by mil telling me it’s too soon, too risky and she wouldn’t be seeing them whilst they are at school as they are vulnerable. So fair enough. They were anxious and this is fine with us. We agreed to see them in the school holidays.
BUT here comes the crazy bit. In the last couple weeks in laws have become very very relaxed. Out socialising. I know you can do this to a certain extent now but this is with no social distancing, going to busy beaches, pubs etc. They have two grown up children who live at home and they are now pretty much back to normal. They’ve also had people to stay there from another part of the country.
Now I shouldn’t care what others do but aibu to think that she was in no place to judge me on sending the children to school when my children’s school have done a fantastic job putting things in place. Yet they are doing whatever they please with no social distancing!
Obviously I don’t want to see them now the brakes have turned. We are still taking social distancing really seriously!
They’ve now suggested we go over this week. I don’t want to. They’ve been socialising with so many people from different households with no social distancing. We’ve still been social distancing as much as we can.
Aibu?
I probably sound crazy but I have some serious anxiety around the virus etc. I know people who have Had it and were very poorly and a relatives friend sadly died of it. It’s very real and far from over even if things have got better.
Aibu to think they are just bloody hypocrites?