Hi, I’ve posted this in child mental health but would really appreciate some advice or experience.
I have an 8 year old boy. He is gorgeous and the kindest loveliest boy however we do have some difficulties which I’d appreciate some other opinions on!
He has been diagnosed with dcd and sensory processing difficulties. I do also have some suspicions about autism. He doesn’t like loud noises or busy places becoming visibly anxious (chews clothes and sticks close to me). Hates change , even to the extent of getting new furniture! Is very into history and exceptionally knowledgeable in this subject. Has never liked being away from me and have had trouble in past getting him into school (again once back part time after lockdown). Has had panic attacks in past when talking about staying somewhere by himself or when actually doing it. He worries a lot about getting told off or doing something wrong. This is despite us not putting pressure on him and always praising him for effort. He lives in a very calm environment so I’m a bit at a loss as to where the anxiety stems from and believe me myself and husband (His dad) have done a lot of soul searching about this. He bites his fingernails and sometimes scratches his skin. He is currently receiving ot for dcd and waiting to see a private counsellor for anxiety but I’m just wondering are we missing something And maybe need to get him assessed for autism? Teacher is very good with him but doesn’t suspect autism but I want to make sure we have everything in place for him and getting the right help.
Any advice or experience would be appreciated!