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Unsafe discharge.. I need help

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ItsLeviooosar · 10/07/2020 00:04

Hi I work in icu so this is a bit of a new field for me. Could I ask any ward nurses to answer a few questions for me?

My grandad has Covid, and was very very unwell a week ago, he’s kind of stabilised but obviously very unwell. His wife has tested positive so this morning they rang my mum and said he’ll be coming home tomorrow because you’re there to look after him and nana is positive anyway.. but there are social issues at home as she has severe dementia and can’t look after herself so mum asked if he could stay there until we got my nana assessed by social services.

2 hours later she gets a call ‘he’s on patient transport now, he’ll be home soon’ he’s so weak he’s not able to walk upstairs unaided, he can’t speak he’s so breathless and he’s confused. Is this normal? As i said my experience of discharging is to a ward!!

He was sent home with no ttos (drugs to take home) instead a list for the community pharmacy that no one in his house can get for him so I'll be driving to wales from England and back again tomorrow just to go to the pharmacy. He's so listless, I'm concerned.

I've told my mum to ring 999 ASAP if anything happens over night at all. She told me his temp was 35 and he had cold hands at 9 which is a sign of sepsis so I said to call the ooh or 999 but she said he was refusing: if it was me I wouldn't hesitate call the ambulance but mum isn't medical at all and is a bit hesitant.

I'll be there to sort out the pharmacy thing tomorrow, however I need a plan;

PALS?
Community matron
Social workers?

Firstly I need help for him and secondly I need to complain that this even happened in the first place. He still has Covid and is incredibly unwell so shouldn't be at home.

OP posts:
minemineminemine · 10/07/2020 15:36

Well done OP. Definitely the right call.

Get onto PALS ASAP and let the ward know you're not impressed & make sure they know that you're a nurse yourself.
The squeaky wheel gets the grease (or unfortunately, in this case, just an appropriate discharge)

Hope he is well and home soon x

MereDintofPandiculation · 10/07/2020 17:36

Now you've got a breathing space, write down everything that's happened, who you've spoken to and what they've said, with dates and times. It'll slip out of your mind no matter how convinced you are that you will remember every detail, and you need all the dates and times as evidence once you make your complaint.

Luckypoppy · 10/07/2020 21:42

How is he? Been thinking about you all day.

thepeopleversuswork · 10/07/2020 21:50

This is truly shocking and sorry you and your family had to go through this.

I have no knowledge at all of medicine or the NHS but I do know the media: honestly if I were you I would go to the papers and raise hell over this.

ItsLeviooosar · 11/07/2020 13:04

So he has sepsis and is back on the Covid ward hopefully he'll get the supportive career he needs now

OP posts:
Ginfordinner · 11/07/2020 23:54

Oh no. I hope he makes a full recovery Flowers

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