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AIBU?

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To be a bit hurt?

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RowboatsinDisguise · 09/07/2020 14:19

Throughout our late teens and early 20s, cousin and I were best friends. We’ve drifted apart in the last couple of years since I had DS and barring a few texts haven’t spoken much in the last year or so. But I didn’t think there was any bad blood between us, just had floated in different directions. I’d been meaning to send a text since she broke up with her long term boyfriend a few months ago and I feel bad that I haven’t but equally she’s not congratulated me on my second pregnancy (she would have known 6 months ago) so it’s not like one of us is more useless than the other!

I’ve just had her come up on my ‘people you may know’ on Facebook so apparently I’ve been deleted as a Facebook friend. Her parents live very near mine and I bump into them quite frequently. She’s actually living with them at the moment. AIBU to feel a bit upset and very awkward?

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Ellisandra · 09/07/2020 14:23

People have Facebook clear outs all the time. You’re not friends with each other - she wasn’t bothered about your pregnancy, you weren’t bothered about her break up.
I’d forget wasting time feeling hurt.
If you’ve drifted but still care, call her and say you’ve drifted - and how is she?
If you don’t actually care and it’s pride - just let it go.

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