Name changed for this one.
I have received information about my friend's partner. Apparently, he was on tinder when they first got together and had sex with a woman when she was drunk so she said he forced himself on her because she was unconscious and so didn't say yes.
Do I tell my friend. There is quite a bit of detail which matches up. But, my friend is really happy with him and he has a respectable job, moved in with her and is selling his home and pays for everything because she doesn't have much money. He seems to really look after her and she is happy after a very bad marriage.
My friend isn't very educated and I don't mean this to sound bad but he is quite a lot more educated than her and she is easy to con. I have been told he is with my friend since it gives him a good front and she will forgive anything he does because she loves him.
My other friend says he is still picking up women on pof and tinder and knows the woman that he had sex with or raped she is a really lovely person so I don't think she would say this if it didn't happen. I was thinking of joining both pof and tinder and finding him on there to show her but I also secretly think she might already know and be protecting him anyway since she seems to really love him and he has moved in with her.
What do I do.
AIBU - tell her
YANBU - leave it and do nothing