So I moved country to be with my oh last year. Weve had our ups and downs and I've forgiven emotional cheating a few weeks just before lock down and some substance abuse during lock down. We were due to move in the next week as well. He has been painting the new place .
All week he has been weird and yesterday he had a massive emotional break down , panic attacks and crying. Eventually he calmed down but refused to talk , saying that it was just everything getting up on top of him. So come this morning he was just the same and I asked him to just tell me what was wrong and I had an idea of what was coming , I was right. He wanted me to leave and go home. So I got up and dressed and met a friend for socially distanced walk. When I got back he was getting ready to go to the new place and he asked me did I want him to come back in and to talk , I said no that there was nothing to talk about. That was before noon and I've heard nothing since.
When (if) he returns this evening aibu that I just dont want to talk about it , it's over and I'd rather just get through the weekend and get my flight home monday morning.