Hi ladies
I wasn’t going to share this with anyone but I have to know I’m not the one being crazy.
Me and dh married about a year ago have been together about 6 and half years now and lately we have been arguing a lot more than normal. Combination of the lock down and just getting on each other neves nearly every day.
I’m always the one being blamed and usually the one who tries to keep the peace as arguing or tension of any kind in front of our son who is 4 and awaiting a diagnosis of autism is very difficult for him to be around. That in itself is exhausting me
On Monday ( the morning of a important doctors appointment ) I picked up his phone as he had left it on the coffee table and something told me to and I was suprised to see him logged in under his name to a Facebook account that clearly isn’t his normal one as this had no photos no friends and had a couple of notifications you get when you set up the new Facebook and link your mobile phone and so on ( I could see he did this on the Friday )
I walked into the kitchen and asked him what is this ??? He said he had never seen it before. It’s his phone and he’s signed into this account at this moment in time of showing him. He then says yes it’s my Facebook account I said clearly not your usual one as look no friends and not even a profile photo ..
He becomes angry and says he has no idea he’s never seen it before. Then he says he got sent a email of someone wanting to be a friend so clicked the link and it must have opened this page ( he has the app on his phone and it would have taken him to his normal account ) we argue he screams and shouts and then storms off
He texts me that his phone must have been hacked. I tell him so they knew how to set up a Facebook account with your name your email your phone and sign in on your phone ?
Long story short of course this is all complete and utter bollox.
He won’t admit it’s his fake / secret account
He denies all knowledge
‘ I won’t admit to something I haven’t done ‘
I cannot stand liars. This clearly to me is someone who is lieing. I have felt for a few months that I’m not sure I want to be married to him anymore due to the constant arguments and the strain of dealing with him but this account now makes me see him as a liar which is something I never believed him to be
What would you do if you was me ?
I kicked him out on Monday and he sent me a text message while I was at the doctors appointment saying that if I continued to believe this was him and he was not being truthful then I could eat shit and die . His words
He is back now as no where to go / hotels closed / lack of money and we are avoiding each other
I’m just so numb to it