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Would you like you, if you met you?

82 replies

Just01 · 30/06/2020 06:24

I dont think I'd like to be friends with myself,I'm too intense,too dominating,untrusting in new people, too emotional, too try hard.
I dont like all these things in other people and cabt change that I'm like this,its surprised me somewhat thinking I dont actually like who I am.

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U2HasTheEdge · 30/06/2020 23:13

I am a great friend. I am generous and caring and will always be there when needed.

However...

I think I would take a while to like me though on a deep level. I think it would take a while to work me out. I can be very outgoing and funny, but I can also turn a little dark which my throw me a little..

IdblowJonSnow · 30/06/2020 23:17

Ooh what a good question!
Pros, loyal, passionate about issues, interested in people, thoughtful and a dry sense of humour.
But can be very pessimistic, a bit short sighted about things, bad tempered and completely over sensitive.
Good self awareness at least! Grin

Mammyloveswine · 30/06/2020 23:26

I'd love me! I'm funny m, friendly, chatty..,

In real life though I can be bitchy, spiteful, moody...

WinWinnieTheWay · 30/06/2020 23:38

I would like me, but a lot of other people would find me hard work (too feminist).

SpillTheTeaa · 30/06/2020 23:53

Yes I would. I would probably think she's the crazy one who laughs at her own jokes and sometimes talks to herself 🧙‍♀️

Snog · 01/07/2020 08:02

Absolutely. I'm really warm, friendly and generous.

Connelloni · 01/07/2020 08:46

I really don’t know. I think the second me would like first me’s sense of humour, and I am friendly and really sociable. But I am also quite opinionated and can be too argumentative/confrontational for some people’s tastes.

My DH and I are very different so that makes me think maybe not. But the thing I share with most of my friends is a similar sense of humour so possibly. Who knows!

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